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This is a perfect example of why not all compliments are flattering. When someone disregards your wishes or disrespects you nothing they say can be taken as a compliment. Mrs Sav

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Va,

I think I may have posted this yesterday, but can't remember, as I spent a bit too much time partying last night. So, I may have just dreamed it; Your profile clearly states that unless you've met or interacted with a SM previously, the clearest way for them to show that they're disrespectful and can't read is for them to email you.

Now, that said, where's the gray?? Where is there room for anyone to misinterpret your wishes, or attempt to explain someone's intentions to you?

WTF?

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VA: In this one instance, I am playing Devil's Advocate. The pictures are hot and since he's new, perhaps he doesn't know what to say??? Perhaps even shy. Now, if he does it again, I will gladly nominate him to the SM asshole column....LOL

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Two things. 1.) Let SLS stop mail from single males, I've had a few profiles that have done that option. And 2.) replace your block button with one that works since you seemed to have worn the original block button out.

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I know it seems harsh, and it's unfair to many singles who aren't idiots, but this morning I am again faced with a birdie from a single male, 110 miles away, profile is one day old, no pics, and the entire message was "Hot hot hot!".

I was probably more irritated than I should have been.... I don't know. Maybe it's unfair, but when we get an email for a single male like that (or couples with no pics) the word "Idiot" instantly comes to my mind, and I am probably not alone.

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Yondude: I second your post. When I read this thread earlier this am, I had similar thoughts but you expressed them much better. Thanks.

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Bah who cares. Be yourself that's a lot easier and the ones that doesn't work for aren't the ones you would have fun with anyway.

Only benefit of getting older is that you truly do give less of a shit what people think.

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Shesmooth: Agree. Always felt it was a good thing to compliment someone whenever the opportunity presented itself. A great looking couple. A fantastic level of fitness. A well written profile. Those catch my eye and I just want to say thanks for that. If I enjoy something someone's done I think it's only fair to make it known. Maybe it's the nature of the LS that causes people to warily eye each communication from an unknown. Mrs. Sav makes good points and I won't argue since I'm new to this. Guess just a by product of bad experiences. Another lesson learned.

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This thread has taken a weird turn. I remember the days when flirting was acceptable in these forums, and often even welcomed.

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For me it's this classic:

Sheldon: I'm not insane, my mother had me tested!

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