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M I know I know... I just didn't want to make another gallery so I stuck it there lol. It would most definitely be a reward! Plan on suspending in a couple of months in NYC and I'd love for you guys to come. Going to give you tons of notice. I'm thinking of doing a lotus for this one.

"Can you even be suspended if you have any fat under your skin?"

Of course! The pictures you were looking at were probably performance suspension... the truth is I've seen more heavy people suspend than people who look like B and I.

" I'm sure that there is a lot of fore thought and skill that goes into that art form."

A tremendous amount of skill yes! My team is fantastic. And you are very welcome.

"How long does it take the skin to heal and do you experience any scarring?"

Depends on where on the body the wounds are generally.. also every one heals differently. My mother scars and bruises easily for instance but it's very difficult for me to scar at all. The marks on my calves and the upper portion of my back have fully healed and unless you are really looking for them you can't see them. My upper thigh and lower back still have tiny scabs but I don't anticipate any scarring.

"Is it technically considered BDSM?"

Ditto to M's response but generally no... this is more ritual and cerebral than anything else. I brought it up in the context of the question posed on the thread etc.

I do love a good caning. Which shouldn't surprise any of you given our name.

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Anything can be considered BDSM. There are no manuals. Ours is more about him being dominant. As in him being in control. We don't get into punishments and rewards its just not our thing. He is simply more dominant than I am. I am not a submissive.

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Is it technically considered BDSM?

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I know you've asked Cayne. But as a couple who is into BDSM, in our relationship, suspension is not part of our repertoire. I cannot see it as punishment in any BDSM interaction. If anything, it is a reward ;).

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Yes.

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Thanks Cayne,

That is artistically beautiful, but I cannot imagine putting all those hooks in my skin. I noticed that most of the people who were being suspended in the photos we're very thin. Can you even be suspended if you have any fat under your skin?

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Damn! Now I feel left out!

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Ouch, the visual of hooks through my skin makes me want to faint. I'm a big baby no doubt about it lol.

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Also Peg and Inked... you have access.

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"And how many are used to distribute the weight?"

It was late last night so I didn't get a chance to answer this but this mainly depends on the type of suspension you are doing and the persons weight. The rig I was up on in those pictures is weight tested for over 900 lbs (and that type of suspension is called a superman for obvious reasons.) There's a good deal of math and physics involved when you suspend.

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