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Created by: hotirish4U Original Starting post for this thread:
Female half here again: I love to dance! So far in my lifestime, I have had only 2 men that actually liked and knew how to dance! My first boyfriend in high school who is Latino, and my ex husband who Chinese. I have yet to have a caucasian partner that likes to dance and knows how! It seems mostly Latino or black men are the ones who are into dancing! Dancing to me is a form of foreplay. Both your bodies swaying to the music, in step with the beat. It can be a very sexy turn on. I have actually gotten very "wet" just from "dirty" dancing with someone. I can understand that not everyone has rhythm....but can a man "learn" rhythm and therefore dance? I'm hoping that I can motivate my partner to take some dance classes with me...... My question is: Do others feel as I do that dance is a kind of foreplay? Ladies: Do you prefer men that can dance? Men: Would you learn to dance if your partner asked you to?

Created by: hotirish4U
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Female half here again:  I love to dance!  So far in my lifestime, I have had only 2 men that actually liked and knew how to dance!  My first boyfriend in high school who is Latino, and my ex husband who Chinese.  I have yet to have a caucasian partner that likes to dance and knows how!  It seems mostly Latino or black men are the ones who are into dancing!
Dancing to me is a form of foreplay.  Both your bodies swaying to the music, in step with the beat.  It can be a very sexy turn on.  I have actually gotten very "wet" just from "dirty" dancing with someone.
I can understand that not everyone has rhythm....but can a man "learn" rhythm and therefore dance?
I'm hoping that I can motivate my partner to take some dance classes with me......
My question is:  Do others feel as I do that dance is a kind of foreplay?
Ladies:  Do you prefer men that can dance?
Men:  Would you learn to dance if your partner asked you to?

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User Details are only visible to members.	--"Pandora will, on occasion, force me to watch but not touch while she dances and undresses herself for me. She's also the first one to jump up on a pole and start dancing when one is available. Hell...given the right situation, so do I. ;)" -- PB, thanks for sharing a pole with me:) Shelly
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2744 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're both huge fans of dancing. We dance all the time. But it never aroused me, not him either. We just LOVE dancing for the sheer beauty of it, for us, it's not a sexual thing.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12263 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Like I said, "A smart man...". Tack on sexy, and he can have the pick of the litter.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (913 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Basically - it's where the girls are.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11766 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A smart man will get out on the dance floor and try his best to dance, even when he knows he's not very good at it. It shows he's got a fun side and he's willing to put himself out there for a good time. Dancing is a preview of sex. A little bit rhythm goes a long way.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (913 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am not shy about dancing. I'm just not very good at it. We can dance if we want to. We can leave your friends behind. Because your friends don't dance and if they don't dance well they're no friends of mine.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11766 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Music flows into my head and out through my feet. I honestly can't help myself. I've just gotta get up and move. Or sing. Or usually both. Doesn't matter if there's a crowd or not. I'm not shy or afraid to get up on a dance floor or stage and cut loose. I've been told I'm a pretty good dance partner as well, so there's that. :) And as far as the ladies wanting to dance sexy for me, I'm a big fan. Pandora will, on occasion, force me to watch but not touch while she dances and undresses herself for me. She's also the first one to jump up on a pole and start dancing when one is available. Hell...given the right situation, so do I. ;)
Long Beach CA			Username hidden (1608 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	YES YES YES, I prefer a man who dances.
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Erotic dancing needs no partners" You are so right my dear, but for me, up close - touching, swaying, kissing, rubbing, fondling of the bare booty all while grooving and shimmying around a dimly lit dance floor is erotic when I have a sexy dance partner willing to immerse himself with me and simply get "lost" in the music and in each other....it's a foreplay league of its own.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2744 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My wife and I love to dance. A few years ago, I got us lessons for a present, since my wife always said she wanted to learn. I thought I'd just tolerate it and make her happy... I never knew that I'd love it too! One unexpected benefit of taking lessons is that dancing really gets us sexually excited-- not that we needed a boost, but we are often attacking each other on the way home. Dancing is like extended foreplay. Sometimes after dancing, as we are driving home, my wife will take my hand and guide it to her pussy to show me how wet she is... :^D The first time we saw a couple dancing bolero, we asked our instructor what it was and demanded that we had to learn it. Now it is one of our strongest dances technically (and great foreplay)! Argentine tango is another one of our favorite dances that some people say when we dance, the room gets hotter... The latin dances are naturally flirty, the swing dances are (what can I say) swingin', and faster dances like samba and Viennese waltz also turn me on. My wife and I are completely comfortable being the only ones on the dance floor in a crowded ballroom dancing the tango... and we have gotten applause when we finished, which I think is pretty cool-- like something from a movie. Mrs LWC- I love it when a woman dances sexy! Mrs. hotirish- I'd enjoy dancing with you! It would be a great M&G. ;^)
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