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Fun_Ahoy,

No one owns a thread, but why post in a thread of someone that you do not like or get along with? Gay bars are open to the public too. Do you go hang out in those just because you can? Not that there is anything wrong with that, but your profile says you are straight, so I am guessing you would not generally go to gay bars.

This is an issue between two members that goes WAY back. I have spent hours trying to mediate between these two members and talking to them in private. I've told both of them to ignore each other. I've advised both of them not to post in threads started by the other.

Certain people obviously aren't interested in Joan's life updates, so why post in those type threads?

And Joan, why keep creating these type threads? You know the same people are going to keep coming in and derail them.

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Joan, we can name the private group Outlaws, or Outlaw Pub.

Dress code - Complete nakedness required.

Decor - Mirrors on every wall and ceiling.

Drugs allowed - Vanity and envy in small doses, humility in large ones.

Non-discrimination policy - Bigots not allowed.

Outdoor seating - A fenced area for barnyard animals who shit where they eat.

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Well if anyone had any doubts about Wayne's bias it should be answered now.

Not aonly does Joan get to 'own' threads, but you should have noticed that he didn't ask why Heat, Frank, or April post in threads they don't like.

It's sickening.

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Joan here is a suggestion, yea I know it has been mentioned before. Why don't you start a group? It just makes sense for what you want to do. You can control who sees, and who posts.

To be fair you have no right to control in an open forum who posts in a thread. None of us do, the idea is insulting whether you see it or not.

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I didnt realize we outlawed pubs too.. delete away. I wont start another one*

joan*

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I've only ever seen Vaglips refer to the forums as a blog. :-)

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"And why do you and Nic and some others post in threads started by people you don't get along with? If you don't like Joan's threads, why post in them? "

That's soooo fucking typical of you.

I don't control what my friends do. If you ever had any real friends then you'd know that.

You really need to find something else to do. You are totally unqualified to moderate a forum

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Wayne I see no reason that threads like these stand, what I agree with you on is the ownership idea. No one should own a thread, and no one should be excluded from posting whether they like the people or not. To be fair and honest, and I am surprised you do not get it. The continual posting of these threads after deletion is an insult to you whether I agree with you or not. Others and I have got in trouble for much less.

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Hey Wayne, I do not envy your role and know you have to draw lines. I also realize that there is much backstory that us newbies do not know (thank goodness).

But there's that thing about babies and bath water.....

If someone really crosses your lines, please just remove them, not the constructive thoughts many of us take time to create and share.

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"Joan's threads"

WTF Wayne? How do I go about owning a thread?

Joan started a thread the other day about limericks. If others hadn't posted in "her" thread, it would be thread-bare.

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