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I usually just send an e-mail thanking them for contacting us but that we don't feel we are a match. We have not had to tell anyone face to face that we aren't interested. It is usually very apparent when there is no chemistry so there is no reason to say anything but good night.

Carrie

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The anonymity of email makes it so much easier, doesn't it? Especially if there is just a clear cut reason. We just turned someone down for a meeting because there was no picture of both and they refused to speak on phone to arrange the meeting. While we don't expect to have prolongued E-mail and phone dating, we do expect to verify that we really are meeting a couple, especially a committed both into the lifestyle couple, so that was easy.

We tend to tell people in advance that we usually do not expect sex and hope they don't on the first meeting but if it happens great. This helps us avoid the face to face no thanks. But when it happens, we're very gentle and avoid specifying why. I usually have Jim do it because he has a gentle voice and inflections than me. And we always wish them well.

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Personally, we just say not interested, which in this lifestyle, no one should take offense to or have hurt feelings. There are many reasons why people are not interested, could be your pics, your profile, etc. We actually have been told the "sorry, we don't think we are compatible, good luck in your search" line quite a number of times, and have met some of the couples who have said that to us, but found we were very compatible in person, but never remember saying that online. Our motto is and always will be to keep your mind open and never judge anyone until you personally meet them, but again, a not interested response is better than no response at all.

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Couldn't have said it better J & C.

Center Valley PA
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Gently very gently---as this lifestyle is not about hurting others feelings...but we can not be attracted to everyone. Politely say that you do not feel a compatibility..but good luck in your search...

Las Vegas NV
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