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PG, there's only one way to find out.

Mr. P, I'm a funny kinda guy, too. My lack of worry, or more accurately, minimized worry is not about this only being about sex, though obviously, sex is the desired outcome. I look at this whole thing with an attitude of abundance vs scarcity. I've had great nights where I've met new friends, made connections, and never played, and great nights when I've awoken in the morning, feeling like I'd just run a marathon. I think when single guys figure out abundance, and stop worrying, the world opens up and showers them with opportunities.

Another difference I think, is that as part of a couple, you'll get the benefit of the doubt due to what you can either call being "safe", or bringing something to the table, as others describe it. I hate the latter expression, by the way. So, that probably puts you in that potentially uncomfortable zone much longer, and earlier than I. That, taking one for the team thing. I don't worry about it because I'm a one man team. My window closes much quicker. It still doesn't make it all about sex, because if I don't get that, Wow! I like these people!- vibe through conversation, I won't even attempt to move things forward. Of course, for me, typically, a SF or Couple won't even approach unless I've been deemed potentially fuckable due to my physical attributes, looks, dress... For the most part, my personality, and everything you described in that first email comes into play later, once I've passed muster. Don't know if that makes sense...

...more coffee.

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Ditto.

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Home brewed Starbucks...

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Just pot on a pot of CDM, it is finally safe to open the last pack since we will be home to get more soon!

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milk after eating the cheerios

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JW if someone drinking chocolate milk and someone drinking coffee kiss, does it taste like a cafe mocha?

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More coffee

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chocolate milk

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Oh, clueless to most signs? That's a different story. I'd have to raise my hand in agreement for the most part. Unless of course, if during a first meet, her hands were to wander. I'd guess that most of us, even the non-gifted, would pick up on that sig. LOL.

I think its more difficult for SMs in this regard because we're always concerned with being labeled too aggressive.

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LOL. I was wondering if anyone else was thinking that way. if I were ever so lucky, both my heads would be in complete sync. "hello kitty tat". :)

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