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Far be it from me to be an intentional irritant!

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Then again, there are those who just wander in, and without a word, there's instant chemistry.

Maker's rocks

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I'm totally clueless much of the time, if it makes you guys feel better. For example, I only just found out from my high school sweetheart that the girlfriend of mine I pawned him off on had a girl crush on me and supposedly was throwing out the signals and I was oblivious. Apparently they discussed me a time or two. Lol

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Gaseous foods do not a happy date night make.

Orange juice and a lite lunch.

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"once I've passed muster"

It's very important to pass muster and not gas. Just my 2 cents...

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PG, there's only one way to find out.

Mr. P, I'm a funny kinda guy, too. My lack of worry, or more accurately, minimized worry is not about this only being about sex, though obviously, sex is the desired outcome. I look at this whole thing with an attitude of abundance vs scarcity. I've had great nights where I've met new friends, made connections, and never played, and great nights when I've awoken in the morning, feeling like I'd just run a marathon. I think when single guys figure out abundance, and stop worrying, the world opens up and showers them with opportunities.

Another difference I think, is that as part of a couple, you'll get the benefit of the doubt due to what you can either call being "safe", or bringing something to the table, as others describe it. I hate the latter expression, by the way. So, that probably puts you in that potentially uncomfortable zone much longer, and earlier than I. That, taking one for the team thing. I don't worry about it because I'm a one man team. My window closes much quicker. It still doesn't make it all about sex, because if I don't get that, Wow! I like these people!- vibe through conversation, I won't even attempt to move things forward. Of course, for me, typically, a SF or Couple won't even approach unless I've been deemed potentially fuckable due to my physical attributes, looks, dress... For the most part, my personality, and everything you described in that first email comes into play later, once I've passed muster. Don't know if that makes sense...

...more coffee.

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Ditto.

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Home brewed Starbucks...

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Just pot on a pot of CDM, it is finally safe to open the last pack since we will be home to get more soon!

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milk after eating the cheerios

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