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TOPIC: Nudity Boring

Created by: hotirish4U Original Starting post for this thread:
Female half here: My partner has been in the LS for some time with his deceased wife. I have only been in the LS for a couple of years now. With all the nude pics and up close shots of genitalia, it is actually turning me off! Nothing left to the imagination! I prefer pics of couples with some clothes on; be it play clothes, swim wear, etc. having fun. What I mean by having fun, is not fuck pics either. I mean like boating, travel, etc. It excites me to fantasize about what is underneath the clothes. We enjoy "play clothes" meaning lingerie for both. I enjoy the touch of someone through thin cloth and then taking it off of me; throwing me down and.......you get the picture! So my question is: how many others feel the same way?

Created by: hotirish4U
Original Starting post for this thread:

Female half here:  My partner has been in the LS for some time with his deceased wife.  I have only been in the LS for a couple of years now.  With all the nude pics and up close shots of genitalia, it is actually turning me off!  Nothing left to the imagination!  I prefer pics of couples with some clothes on; be it play clothes, swim wear, etc. having fun.  What I mean by having fun, is not fuck pics either.  I mean like boating, travel, etc.
It excites me to fantasize about what is underneath the clothes.  
We enjoy "play clothes" meaning lingerie for both.  I enjoy the touch of someone through thin cloth and then taking it off of me; throwing me down and.......you get the picture!
So my question is: how many others feel the same way?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Both for us, we prefer to see the whole enchilada. Its nice to see couples picks in clothes in normal settings to get a feel first for how they care for themselves and present themselves in public. But then after we feel there is a mutual interest we prefer to see nudes before talking, more importantly the man believe it or not. Size does matter to her and she doesnt like big bellies or really hairy men or tatoos or piercings. As for the ladies its always nice to see nudes of them but we dont require it as much... you can generally telll with clothing on how hot they may be underneath. Ladies can look sexy in any shape or size, waist, breasts, legs in any flavor combination is part of the fun in having sex with someone with a different shape or size than your partner. Thats why we swing right, for something different?
Rocky Point NC			Username hidden (19 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Agreed. When the best someone can offer, creativity-wise, is to merely strip out of their clothing, that's usually a warning sign that they're not worth the effort.
Saint Paul MN			Username hidden (14 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I feel where you are coming from. However, I like a combination of both. IMO, it shows the balance of the person. I hate getting the dick shot as the first contact just like I hate to get a sexual proposal before I even know who the fuck you are! This adds to the "we're all here for the same thing." We are not all here for the same thing. I have lots of "friends" from this site that I've never had a sexual encounter and we are still cool. I am a nudist at heart and go to nudist resorts and beaches as it is so relaxing and people are not on "cruise" like we nasty swingers...LOL. However, I went on a LS cruise where men came to breakfast with their dicks swinging. I hated that! There is a right way and a better way to do things. Use common sense.
Vero Beach FL			Username hidden (768 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Quality, creative cock socks? Like a codpiece with a little lagniappe.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (4162 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hey JaiDawn: I get what you're saying, believe me. There have been times when I was a "little" (pun intended) surprised. Just wish there was some way to "dress up" the cock so it's not so out there! LOL! Hey, new idea!! Little outfits for the cock!! oh yeah, they have those already at our local porn/costume shop.....
Cocoa FL			Username hidden (108 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	For me nudity hasn't become boring so much as it's just become more, I dunno, normal. I've always had a true appreciation for the female form. (I could get existential and call it an artists eye, but I'm not in a bar trying to pick someone up at the moment, so I won't). I love the curves and bumps. The dimples and wrinkles. All the silly little quirks and imperfections that make a woman unique. I don't, or ever did, get turned on at the sight of a naked woman just because she's naked. I get turned on by a confidant woman who isn't afraid of the skin she lives in, no matter how much of it's showing. It's for that reason alone that I find burlesque performers to be infinitely more attractive than any stripper or porn star. And if that confidant lady happens to be into me as well, then it's going to be one of the most incredibly freeing sexual encounters she's ever had in her life (Oh shit...I'm still using my pick-up lines aren't I?)
Long Beach CA			Username hidden (1608 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@hotirish - Let me know how your trip to Desire goes in May. We're hopefully headed down there in November.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (911 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	When you take pants down and the guy's penis is only 2 inches if that (yes this has happened to me), there is no making lemonade with that. You have those surprises. I don't want them. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16519 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL!! LIVEWIRECPL - you are correct....my partner WAS in the LS with his deceased wife! Need a proof reader. HA! We are going to Desire, Cancun in May. It will be interesting. Being a natural redhead with fair skin; I cannot worship the sun! Someone mentioned better to see what you're getting, rather than a surprise. HMmmm.....I like surprises, good or not so good. I'm the kind of person that takes lemons and makes a lemon pie!
Cocoa FL			Username hidden (108 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sed, you've obviously "got it" girl, so flaunt away!!! I tend to like erotic pics that leave a little to the imagination, & make me want to uncover the rest. We don't have any totally nude pics on our profile.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2721 post)

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TOPIC: Nudity Boring