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TOPIC: Male Half of Drama Cpl Now SM

Created by: hotirish4U Original Starting post for this thread:
Some may have read my blog about the drama cpl that we became friends with. Well, now the male half is on as a SM; when his wife hasn't officially moved out!! WTF?! He also has put himself about 5 years younger in his profile. We truly believe in Karma. He is just rubbing his infidelity in his wife's face, just to be "mean". How can someone do this to a person they have been married to for 25 years?

Created by: hotirish4U
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Some may have read my blog about the drama cpl that we became friends with. Well, now the male half is on as a SM; when his wife hasn't officially moved out!! WTF?! He also has put himself about 5 years younger in his profile. We truly believe in Karma.
He is just rubbing his infidelity in his wife's face, just to be "mean".
How can someone do this to a person they have been married to for 25 years?

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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm still confused.... hotirish, your OP had nothing to do about friendships or swinging preferences (fwb vs just sex), but your following posts did. I have a feeling when this happened to your friend's marriage, (whom you obviously care a lot about) ....it opened a door of confusion for 'you'. I don't think it's a very big 'surprise' for this to happen to an already troubled marriage and your friend should come to this conclusion too. Sad sure, but surprising no. You have a lot of sympathy for your friend, but be careful to keep it in perspective. Learn from it in any ways that may be appropriate for you and your relationship ...choosing future playmates, future friends, keeping your marriage strong and healthy, etc... That's all you can really do. I sure hope you're not getting sick over this.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sed, not lashing out. Some of the comments made me realize that some people don't care to have friendships with people. That's ok. Sorry, my writing it not up to your standards! Thanks to all, and have a great weekend!
Cocoa FL			Username hidden (108 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Seems like a lot of people are just into the sex side of things; which is great. I, the female half, have to be attracted to more than just the physical. That's just me." How does that relate to anything in this subject. You're like a petulant child who couldn't get what mom has firmly said no to. So you're lashing out in any way that you can. People answered your questions, obviously not to your liking, but they answered what you asked. Why did you feel the need to stomp your feet and lash out at people for merely responding to you? from the answers that you got, how did you deduce that people are just into sex, and in what way does that relate to this topic?
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12279 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Next time it might be helpful if you actual ask the question you want an answer to. You never asked if anyone else has had this happen. You asked how someone could do this to someone they have been married to, for a while. That is the question everyone answered. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16530 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Seems like a lot of people are just into the sex side of things; which is great. I, the female half, have to be attracted to more than just the physical. That's just me." I'm like that too hotirish... and it doesn't seem to happen often. lol ps, I didn't know that's what you were asking.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you all for your responses. Was just asking how many other people have some across someone using the LS to cheat on their spouse. Even though we are "swingers", we do have limits or morals per se. We became friends with them, outside of the bedroom. Maybe that is our problem. We like having FWB. People to enjoy vacations and other vanilla activities with. Seems like a lot of people are just into the sex side of things; which is great. I, the female half, have to be attracted to more than just the physical. That's just me. Have fun out there!
Cocoa FL			Username hidden (108 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Always darlin'
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (14608 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Asshole!
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12279 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Oh, I remeber the look. I'm so glad it worked. :-)
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (14608 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	...or game to shoot
Pottstown PA			Username hidden (1375 post)

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