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Many of the women are in the lifestyle because they are bi. They want sex with other women and they happen to have a husband that comes along. Those couples that list the woman as bi curious dont really play, or are new in the lifestyle. A few do it to try to get the husbands involved in the sex so its not just the women. Only around 10% of couples who play have straight wives. When we play with a couple with a bi woman she says that Mrs being straight is no problem but always the bi women have their hands touching Mrs and they wind up doing oral and so on. That she doesn't mind as long as she is not expected to do the same.

What we find sad is that a lot of the younger bi women just tell their husbands that all they can do is watch. Poor guys.

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"I firmly believe a lot of those bi/bi curious females have no idea they are listed as such."

I agree.

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"I firmly believe a lot of those bi/bi curious females have no idea they are listed as such."

I firmly believe a lot of females have no idea they are listed on any profile, at all. FIFY.

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I firmly believe a lot of those bi/bi curious females have no idea they are listed as such. I've come across it several times when I was a SF and now as a couple as well.

There are plenty of men that want their wives to be bi to fulfill their fantasies and are willing to lie about it in hopes they enjoy another woman touching them.

It has been such a problem for me that I had to make special mention of it in our profile as I'm not interested in "trying to turn your woman bi" or playing with a woman that doesn't want me.

Of course I've had loads of "straight" women make the first move on me so go figure.

~rabbit~

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Reminds me of a Styx song...

Fullerton CA
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Yeah. We'll see if Wayne answers me, although likely there won't be any historical data (unless he's really bored).

What would also be interesting to see is how listed orientations change over time - i.e. did most of those straight women sign up as straight?

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"I might speculate that couples where she is listed as straight as slightly more likely to have interest in single males."

Agreed. Which is why I did that search results comparison, which is still likely to be skewed for the same reason.

My sense that there are more straight-female couples than there used to be is just a general one, sort of anecdotal more than anything.

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Well, re: who viewed you...

I might speculate that couples where she is listed as straight as slightly more likely to have interest in single males.

My experience is not like yours: out of the last 30 couples that viewed us, the ratio is 27:3 bi/bi-cur:straight

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I just created two searches for couples within 50 miles of my zip, identical except for the straight or bi setting for females. The results:

729 Bi or bicurious female couples 213 Straight female couples

That's probably a bit misleading, since many couples won't show up in searches done by a single male if SMs are blocked from viewing them. And I'd guess straight-female couples would be less prone to block single males than would bi-female couples.

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I was thinking it was more along the lines of so many vanilla people finding their way here (sort of like some SMs) wondering what's it all about (Alfie). Though VA what you said does make sense. I also list as straight but then have this teeny tiny disclaimer. I know for me after meeting with a couple where the wife was seriously straight, I vowed never to do that again. In my opinion, in a FMF it (the bi-ish play thang) simply helps keep everyones hands, lips and minds in a playful, engaged state.

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