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shelly will you conceal my weapon.....please

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If the forum mafia are nekkid at least they aren't carrying concealed weapons.

Mrs. u

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Sounds very Italian.

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JW who is considered forum mafia.

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Some people here in the greater Phx area also use that tactic of opening pics for others going to the same party. I heard that in doing so, it might entice people to actually follow through on attending and help them easily be recognized at the party.

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sometimes people will open pics to others they are interested in that are going to the same party.

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Why thank you Currentrider.

In the case I mentioned, Mr. U was the SM who had granted "viewing" privileges before initial contact was made. I'd never seen anyone grant access before contact, I interpreted it as I didn't have to wonder about his interest level and being the straightforward gal I am---I wrote him first, even though I was confident then that he'd eventually be tempted enough by a faceless blonde in black lace sprawled on a bed and write. Time wasn't plentiful either, I was only in town for a few days.

FYI, if anyone is going to open photos to people as a way to show your interest yet not directly contact them, it helps to put that notice in your profile and alert people that if they can "see" you, then you are interested.

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Mrs. U, you should certainly know something about an eyeful, being one yourself...

I don't really have an explanation as to why someone would take this approach if they were interested in a local person or couple who's profile showed that they were receptive to an email. Afraid to make the first move I guess.

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Back in my single female days, I had never seen that marketing technique until a trip to TN. Boy, did I get an eyeful once I found that a certain SM had opened ALL of his picture galleries to me without initiating contact.

Mrs. Uriah

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VA,

I've done this. In my case, what Scamp said. For me it's a way of saying "I'm definitely interested but I can read, and respect your wishes."

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