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Yeah. We'll see if Wayne answers me, although likely there won't be any historical data (unless he's really bored).

What would also be interesting to see is how listed orientations change over time - i.e. did most of those straight women sign up as straight?

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"I might speculate that couples where she is listed as straight as slightly more likely to have interest in single males."

Agreed. Which is why I did that search results comparison, which is still likely to be skewed for the same reason.

My sense that there are more straight-female couples than there used to be is just a general one, sort of anecdotal more than anything.

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Well, re: who viewed you...

I might speculate that couples where she is listed as straight as slightly more likely to have interest in single males.

My experience is not like yours: out of the last 30 couples that viewed us, the ratio is 27:3 bi/bi-cur:straight

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I just created two searches for couples within 50 miles of my zip, identical except for the straight or bi setting for females. The results:

729 Bi or bicurious female couples 213 Straight female couples

That's probably a bit misleading, since many couples won't show up in searches done by a single male if SMs are blocked from viewing them. And I'd guess straight-female couples would be less prone to block single males than would bi-female couples.

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I was thinking it was more along the lines of so many vanilla people finding their way here (sort of like some SMs) wondering what's it all about (Alfie). Though VA what you said does make sense. I also list as straight but then have this teeny tiny disclaimer. I know for me after meeting with a couple where the wife was seriously straight, I vowed never to do that again. In my opinion, in a FMF it (the bi-ish play thang) simply helps keep everyones hands, lips and minds in a playful, engaged state.

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VA I agree with you bc we're still in our 1st year of this and I haven't played with women much so far making my level technically "curious" though my interest in them goes many many years back.

Also- at one I did indeed change my status to Straight because we were bombarded by pushy couples. And one we did play with that listed herself as Straight, that in a million years I wouldn't have ever touched- admitted she lied but was only into other women when she was drinking (which she needed to do in order to play at all.). Ugh.

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A cursory glance at the last 30 (thirty) couples who viewed my profile: 16 (sixteen) straight/straight couples, 14 (fourteen) straight/bi couples.

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I asked him.

I also notice that bi or bi-curious guys seem more common, but that makes a little more sense - it's becoming (very gradually) more accepted, and more are not feeling like they have to hide it anymore.

I suspect that many women are like Mrs. VA - when they first get into the lifestyle they are all about girls because of the novelty, but once that's worn off, they mostly are just into guys. So while strictly speaking she's "bi" she rarely acts on it. Her messing around with a girl a few weeks ago was the first time in ages that I've seen it happen. So many such women begin calling themselves "straight" because they are tired of fending off couples looking primarily for (or requiring) girl-girl play.

That's my hypothesis.

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Actually, I had not noticed that, but now that you mention it...

I wonder if Wayne could give us some details on such trends...

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Somebody should create a spreadsheet and report back to us on that.

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