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Like others said, hang in there. The search for compatible people can be exhaustin. 9 outta 10 don't write back, of the ones that do 9 outta 10 aren't interested, of the ones that are 9 outta 10 don't click. That's jus the way it goes. We have nuthin against interacial, and we ain't that for from yas.

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Ohhhh! That's the question. That's an easy one. Try being over that magical cut-off age of 50 (the one that the overwhelming number of couples have). Or being a larger couple, or a couple with a bi male. There are many posts on this forum from couples that those apply to who ask the same thing: what's the big deal? The answer is the same for all... it just is -- so what! No..these things SHOULDN'T be a big deal, but to many - they are. Will that ever change? Maybe..but you have to ask yourself -- do you think you should change YOUR preferences just because other people say you should? I kinda doubt it. No, we're not trying to say one shouldn't try to right wrongs..but personally we don't think telling others who they should be intimate with has any 'right' in it. And just because you get the old quick reply doesn't mean that it was racially motivated. We have used them on occasion, and all that it meant was that we were not interested, and we really don't feel we need to elaborate. And as for moving..? We have lived all over, and hate to tell you this, but there are couples who live in the states you mentioned who say the same thing about their state! You two are a sexy pair, and from your pics have had SOME success..there are others out there who are looking specifically for you!

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It's not a big deal. But, some people just thrive on being offended, it makes them feel morally superior, so they will push buttons until they get a reaction. We don't care about race one way or another, we care about attitude more than anything. We prefer to share pleasures with people we can be friends with.

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So when you guys making a trip to Texas? ;;) Zo

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<<That could break the log jam.>>

OUCH! I don't want to break my log when I jam it in!

ROFL

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Hang in there. There isn't much we can add other than we've met some wonderful people. It hasn't been an issue for us. We tend to get it in a slightly different form where the couple that contacts us is looking for "the experience". Once Ms. Central sees that a quick "no thanks" is sent, lol. It's also similar to the couple that contacts us looking for the first bisexual experience for the female half when she's not sure she'll reciprocate. Perhaps you need to seek out meet and greets or try a club. That could break the log jam.

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Hey Natone, It's not about race unless you let it be. Not everyone is going to be attracted to you..just as you are not going to be attracted to everyone. Yes, there are those who won't be attracted to you two because one of you is black..but there are also couples who won't be attracted to you because one of you is white. So looking for a 'Black' swing site isn't necessarily going to be the magic answer, it's actually voluntary segregation! No one race holds the patent on predjudice, and it's always distasteful regardless of the source. You sound like you have a great attitude, and that is 90 percent of the battle. We have met some wonderful PEOPLE in the lifestyle, and they are what makes it all work. M and G

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You just have to be patient. There are a lot more interracial swingers than you probably think. And they are not just black and white.......we are hispanic and native, we know some hispanic and black, hispanic and white.....etc.....(of course most of them are hispanic and something due to our area of the country.....) Zo.

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Welcome Natone! Hang in there, there's plenty of people that will want you. We'd invite you over but it's a heck of a drive.

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VIRGIN POSTER ALERT!

Welcome, Natone!

L., who was just reading the thread out of curiosity and couldn't resist the welcome!

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