Inter and IntraCouple Contacts: Swingers Discussion 397721011

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User Details are only visible to members.	I would have no proplem with that. Poly you are no different then we are, We had couples thatthe men would would try the head off where I was going
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User Details are only visible to members.	Watching isnt a problem poly
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User Details are only visible to members.	This is a good topic. I remeember playing with couples that were like that. I see it a little different then you guys. We like to swap so when we are with a couple it doesnt feel right when im playing with a lady and as I explore I meet her husbands hands where I try to put mine. I see it like would he like it if I my wife like he covers his
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User Details are only visible to members.	It seems to us that if you are going to exchange partners for sex that you focus MOST of your attention on your sex partner of the moment and on giving that person pleasure. If your primary purpose is to focus on your spouse/so's pleasure, then you may as well stay home and attend to that. There WAS nothing afterward in the "prop in their theater production" episode we described earlier. We would enjoy helping others with some fantasies, but they should be articulated ahead of time so that we have the option to participate or not.
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User Details are only visible to members.	We always interact with each other when we're with others.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I think it's important to use some common sense regarding this issue. It seldom comes up for us, because we are a separate rooms couple most of the time, but not all the time. On the occasions when we have been in the same bed, it seems natural at times to reach over and touch your own spouse in a loving way, if only to let them know you are concerned as much for their fun as your own. On the other hand, probably the worst time we've ever had in swinging was with a couple when we were in the same bed and while he was on top of Mrs. Valovers and she was on top of me, they spent the entire time looking at each other, holding hands, and "showing off" for each other. We might as well have just been blow up dolls. We have never felt so "used" in all our swinging experience. It ought to be just fine, when in the same bed, to interact with your own spouse or SO, but MOST of your attention should be focused on the person who is your sex partner at the moment. Otherwise you are just using them, in our opinion. Almost all the people we've played with have been very attentive to us instead of to each other, but that one couple was so into putting on a show for each other that we felt like we were just props in their little theater production. Obviously we never saw them again.
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