Inter and IntraCouple Contacts: Swingers Discussion 39772

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User Details are only visible to members.	Curious, I will stick to my guns about the rudeness of focusing most of your attention on each other instead of on the person you're having sex with. Of course, that's just our opinion, but I'm betting the vast majority of swingers would agree. If someone just wants us for the purpose of having someone to jump on while entertaining each other, they won't see us again, for sure. We think that if someone is sharing themselves sexually with you, it behooves you to treat them like a PERSON that you are happy to be with, not like an inanimate object or prop in a theater production for you and your wife. Just our opinion. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8165 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Dammit, Curious, I must have had a senior moment! LOL
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User Details are only visible to members.	Here Here valovers. We have always said that from the beginning. that there is no wrong or right way, only the way that anyone is most comfortable in what they are doing.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There isn't any "right way" or "wrong way" to swing. Different strokes for different folks. Whatever works for you is good. I've seen too many threads where people stake out opposing viewpoints and then start making assertions about people with the opposite view, as if there is something "wrong" with their way of thinking or their relationship or their maturity level. Lighten up, everyone. There are no rules about this! Happy New Year, everyone! Jim
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User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks, funlovin. Now if only that underhanded, dirty-dealing, intellectual capital-stealing, Walmart-hating nofun would do the same! ROFL Jim (who really likes nofun but leaves no stone unturned in the search for ways to stick the needle in him)
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User Details are only visible to members.	LOL funlovin! Use "my line" all you want. Nofun4me has no qualms about stealing my "special sauce" line, so why should YOU worry? LOL Jim
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User Details are only visible to members.	<We don't even really understand people who like seperate room swinging.> The best explanation I can think of, without writing a dissertation about it, is that some people enjoy sex the most when it is one on one, private, and intimate. Separate rooms is more conducive to that kind of sexual enjoyment. By the way, we never go into separate rooms with a couple who we think of as "strangers". We like to take the time to know them and feel comfortable with them. On a couple occasions we've done the "fuck-and-flee" thing, but in that case it's been same room. Our preference though is for the more intimate kind of sex, with good and trusted friends.
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User Details are only visible to members.	we not only enjoy being able to play with one another while being involved but also encourage the other couple to be as in tune as we are. For those that think this is not a good thing lets throw this scene in its place.the males laying on their backs , the women on top of them .The ladies start to fondle one another,kissing one another while on top of each male.There is nothing wrong with that.Whats wrong with kissing your spouse while she is being satisfied by another while your satisfying another.it adds to the enticment,excitement. There have been times when we have looked at each other and just knew that it woud be so much more fun if we were together at that very moment then to continue on the course we were on.At those times we will switch partners and go to our spouse. After all this time , I still can't believe that there is only oen special woman that can rock my world any time,anyplace,make me do things totally out of character for me and its suzy
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The only sexual experiences that Ms. Content has enjoyed have been one-on-one (and 99.9% of those have obviously been with me!). When we swing it's the same deal. We normally go on separate rooms. Sometimes when that's not practical then we stay in the same room, but we do it on separate beds. She can't stand being on the same bed with another couple, as she finds that too distracting. So for us it's a no brainer: we have to be on the second camp, 100%. We've tried it both ways, and we know what works for us. I'm surprised to hear somebody say that most couples are on the second camp; my impression was the opposite, although admitedly there are plenty of couples on both camps, and more than a few who are flexible enough to do it either way.
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User Details are only visible to members.	It seems to us that if you are going to exchange partners for sex that you focus MOST of your attention on your sex partner of the moment and on giving that person pleasure. If your primary purpose is to focus on your spouse/so's pleasure, then you may as well stay home and attend to that. There WAS nothing afterward in the "prop in their theater production" episode we described earlier. We would enjoy helping others with some fantasies, but they should be articulated ahead of time so that we have the option to participate or not.
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