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"black ball' method. "

Was the reader digest version. Fleshing it out a bit...

Preferred Venue = coffee house, tea house ( for non drinkers & costs are lower if that's an issue) Local sports bar "off hours" ( less noise and distraction)

If things are on the positive side and no one indicates a disconnect.

Ask if they want to play a game. Always intriguing (in a public place)

Then pull out the game and see where it goes.

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We prefer meeting over lunch or dinner for a first date. Since we don't drink alcohol, the bar scene doesn't appeal. We go for upscale casual food, but it must be a location that allows for private conversation without yelling and straining to hear over ambient noise.

We've also met and then played with people at hotel takeovers after getting to know them a bit. At least at the hotel takeovers you don't have watch what you say like you do at vanilla settings.

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I know of some couples using the anonymous "black ball' method.

All green tokens = play 1 red token = no play

I descenting vote and it's a no go. Best of all for the faint hearted no pressure!

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We're comfortable regardless where we are, though prefer not particularly loud places. Ideal first meet? we all click.

The last couple that we met was in Manhattan at a cigar club. We had a blast, but we were not a good match.

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Ideally, at a party or meet and greet, where if we find them uninteresting (or they find us uninteresting) we can go our separate ways without feeling obligated to ride out some time.

If we're meeting a couple out one-on-one, it's usually drinks at a Chilis or something. Casual but not loud.

Sometimes we'll invite people to come along when we go see a band. But of course, that'll be loud.

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