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TOPIC: How many times has this happened to you
Created by: sophiasays69
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We were invited to our first house party. The guest list included our first couple we were with that for me was a horrible experience. A couple we had dinner and hung out with the weekend before but he was an obnoxious drunk, and a couple we blocked because he was overdoing the emails, IMs etc to the point I felt I was being stalked.

So we were invited a few days ago to another house party almost an hour away from home. Thought this would be a good one to check out. The RSVP list came out and one couple that we rejected because they would not send pics to us and a single guy we sent an auto reply rejection to a few days before the party invite are on it.

Sophia

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Happens all the time. We have a lot of people we have histories with that we do not wish to repeat that we see out at parties.

Playing the balance game between being cordial vs encouraging further contact is a delicate business. If anyone gives you a hard time about saying no to them, that's THEIR problem - avoid them. If they persist, speak to the host of the problem you're having.

We avoid being outright nasty to people unless absolutely necessary. It's best to avoid people talking smack about you as much as possible - no matter how much you don't (or no longer) like them.

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Happened to us 12.5 times!

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We were invited to our first house party. The guest list included our first couple we were with that for me was a horrible experience. A couple we had dinner and hung out with the weekend before but he was an obnoxious drunk, and a couple we blocked because he was overdoing the emails, IMs etc to the point I felt I was being stalked.

So we were invited a few days ago to another house party almost an hour away from home. Thought this would be a good one to check out. The RSVP list came out and one couple that we rejected because they would not send pics to us and a single guy we sent an auto reply rejection to a few days before the party invite are on it.

Sophia

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