How do you ferret out a cheater: Swingers Discussion 393591011

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User Details are only visible to members.	Expo, that's the devil with details, some of your criteria would exclude your selves. I agree with what you're saying, the more open someone is about themselves the more likely they are to be real. That's why we like to do some getting to know before meeting. Most fakes will expose them selves pretty quick.
Bedford PA			Username hidden (5527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	this may seem harsh and probably rude. its how we do what we do Most people like to talk about themselves,family work ,personal lives work etc.Cheaters wil say very little so the more you get out of them the better the chances are that they are not cheaters We allow them to talk. if anyone knows any police officers they wil say he same thing about criminals.Let them talk the more they talk the more they say and the more they screw themselves. we try to get a ton of information out of them about themselves. We push the she is veyr bi thats in our profile and how in the world can they help us.Most times they end up slipping by saying their wife or gf is also bi. As soon as they admit that they are married a meet with all four of us needs to be scheduled Like one poster said they want to meet during the week.we always will suggest another day or the weekend and to go to where they live to meet in a public place.If they object chances are they do not want to be seen in public WE always ask for a home number, they seem to give out cell numbers only and special times when they can be reached. We understand about the cell number as we only give out our cell number. The reason we have kids at home and oen time we gave out a home number. They spoke to our son about a party that was happening that weekend.No more do we give out a cell number. We have to think they are thinking like we are when they only give a cell number. During the conversation I will smoothly run into how will you be paying for the evening cash or crdit cards.Normnally cheaters use cash as there is no record of a cash transaction and no explanation of why you spent this at the amerinn . Mostly we watch what is beign said how its being said, the more they talk the more lies that are spun in which they can't remember. it really easy to find a cheating person. To date we really have not run into a cheating female that has tried ot trick us.Most are pretty much in the open about what and why they are here and telling us if we do not like it we can move on.For some reason the females have bigger balls then the males in this aspect. even though they are still not telling their spouse.But they do tend to tell us ahead of time.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	no photos, no phone numbers, very indirect answers to even mundane questions, don't want to meet in a public place.
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If someone can only meet during the day, that sets off our alarm bells. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16547 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In another topic, (Double Standard: Cheaters in the Swing Scene, Male vs Female), Expo969 wrote “Be careful, ask tough questions, see the answers they give you and learn!!!” What are those questions? What is the best way to ferret out a cheater?
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