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I'm still new to all of this, but reading in the forums, I'm learning from everyone else's observations what I might want to avoid. I'm hoping it makes for a better overall experience when I start connecting with the right people.
Asa to biting and scratching, I do. BUT I do not break skin or leave lasting marks. There's a fine line between letting go and going too far. Little playful nips, more so than actual bites, and just enough scratch to feel it without it being painful or lasting. Like I said: there's a fine line. |
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Sadism? Hmmm I think Hitler is sadist...
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If someone, especially someone I didn't know, spanked me they would quickly find out why hubby calls me "The Queen of Mean."
We don't go to parties, to play. Trying to find open beds or laying down, in fluid soaked beds, tends to kill the mood. We go to socialize and meet people. If we meet someone we are interested in, we get their info and set up a meet, for another time. Carrie |
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I've not experienced a house party yet, much less one with the rough handling you describe. There have been times when I really enjoyed being fingered roughly and came many times from it, yet with the same partner months later I wanted and needed a softer touch. The key for me was communicating what worked and what didn't.
It's doubtful that I'd ever want to give or receive scratches, bites, or bruises. It's just not in my make up. |
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I don't mind the occasional swat, but thanks for the 'heads up' about the direction these things can take. During sex is the only time I'm not really talkative outside of the occasional "easy!" or "harder" or "more", if I'm really in to what I'm doing. lol
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sorry, my Ipad update is causing problems --truncating and such--- maybe for others too-- I have been noticing a few deleted posts around these threads,hhhm.
Anyway-- I stop spanking anybody before any marks are left-- guess I am not a heavy hitter, I simply participate in what I consider erotic spanking, not punishment wherein some players may have some masochistic tendencies and expect or need to see marks. happy thanksgiving guys! Shelly |
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no but we only play with small select groups and they are usually pretty good about knowing our likes and dislikes. I'm a hard one because I like things a bit rough however I only like being spanked by a very few people and most are afraid to try it because of that lol.
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gina, were you in an orgy type setting when you found this behavior to be prevalent?
If you were picking your partners, couldn't you communicate your likes and dislikes? |
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