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Created by: Sexycouple2412 Original Starting post for this thread:
Is it an epidemic in the life style. My wife and I, have been swinging for a couple of years now and we have run into a lot of couples who's husbands can't get it up. The last four couples we have hooked up with, I end up fucking the wife and look over and my wife is stuck babysitting a limp dick. A lot of the other wives end up admitting to me that their husbands have a problem and ask if I have any Viagra. I'm a guy so I know it can happen and a lot of us guys do carry the blue pill just in case " insurance " as I, call it. I just think its a fraud if you know that your husband is broken and don't disclose it. My wife and I, are swingers we love watching each other, not for me to be the only one who plays. My other question is what do you do when it happens to you and how do you handle it. We just stop when I see she has another one.

Created by: Sexycouple2412
Original Starting post for this thread:

Is it an epidemic in the life style. My wife and I, have been swinging for a couple of years now and we have run into a lot of couples who's husbands can't get it up. The last four couples we have hooked up with, I end up fucking the wife and look over and my wife is stuck babysitting a limp dick.
A lot of the other wives end up admitting to me that their husbands have a problem and ask if I have any Viagra. I'm a guy so I know it can happen and a lot of us guys do carry the blue pill just in case
" insurance " as I, call it. I just think its a fraud if you know that your husband is broken and don't disclose it. My wife and I, are swingers we love watching each other, not for me to be the only one who plays. My other question is what do you do when it happens to you and how do you handle it. We just stop when I see she has another one.

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User Details are only visible to members.	i also agree. if you KNOW you have issues you shouldnt be swinging. happened to me on many occasions.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (1415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So far havent met a man that cant get it up, thankfully, course I have not been looking for awhile. I agree with the post below 100 percent however.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1844 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yeah, this happened to me, female half; more than I would like to say. The first time it happened to me, I took it personally, that they other male was not attracted to me!! If you can't perform, and don't want to take something to help you along; then you shouldn't play!! Get out of swinging; or just be a cuckhold for your female partner with SMs!
Cocoa FL			Username hidden (108 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hmmm.... I thought it was more related to guys getting off too quickly! This is strange!
Garland TX			Username hidden (70 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think for some men, they can get it up fine with their own partner, but have those "psychological" issues when with others, or in a group. Some men can't relax enough to enjoy themselves b/c they are worried or concerned about what is going on w/ their wives. Or too much to drink. Or too much visual stimulation all around them to be able to focus on the wife they're with. Or...any number of things. Sometimes it's about comfort level, sometimes performance anxiety, sometimes it's just really late in the evening when things get started. My husband almost always gets hard (there's been an exception or two in our almost 8 years of swinging, and it's usually either been b/c he'd been going at it so long that they were both exhausted, or that he really wasn't into the woman he was with). he doesn't usually cum with other women though (a few nice exceptions to this). Some women are great with that b/c he certainly gets THEM off several times, fucking, orally, manually, whatever, as that's his priority, but we usually end up fucking each other when we go home, so that kind of thing works fine. If I'm with a guy who can't get it up, or keep it up for whatever reason (it's happened very rarely, but it has happened that he can't maintain an erection, sometimes once the condom is on), then I will ask to take a little break, get some nourishment or water, and try again, and I will ultimately ask him to masturbate for me (I like watching that). That has always worked, the couple times I've done that. But that's also been when there was some privacy involved. Hope this helps answer some questions as to why it happens, b/c it does. I don't freak out or feel cheated. I have the best sex partner in the world for me, and I know that swinging isn't the be all and end all, and I will look forward with anticipation and desire the time for me and my husband to go home (or to our room, etc. or even in the midst of a group thing) and fuck each other's brains out. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6045 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Psychological impotence is an embarrassing thing. How bad does it affect the couples in their own relationships?
Bensalem PA			Username hidden (2085 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have run in to this issue. Fortunately for me, if the other male is having issues my husband can get a second erection within a few minutes of orgasm and can take care of business with me. MrsP
New Albany IN			Username hidden (261 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Fired up for days! Imagine, walking around with your shnozle at full attention! Hot damn!!!! Welcome to the forum, Flt!
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12263 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am with Carrie, if your wife has a performer who can't perform -- she should join you and the other wife. FMF seems to be a very big fantasy around here and might even resurrect the limp dick.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2744 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I was thinking the same thing, VA! Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16523 post)

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