Group play vs Another couple: Swingers Discussion 425931011

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User Details are only visible to members.	Each activity has it's own joys and flavors. We tend to play more couple to couple, usually easier to organize and more relaxed. Once or twice a year we accept an invitation to a group grope, understanding it is a horse of a different color. And for Poly, the people we group grope with do change condoms after each connection, full or not.....lol. (Although we have to admit to dollar store condoms in a large bowl at one party that looked alot like old balloons-- MD always brings his own-- he hates them and is picky about the right fit)
Phoenix AZ			Username hidden (159 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Every house party we've attended has been more like a "mix & match" party than an orgy. Although the master bedroom is usually designated a "group room" and the door left open, rarely have we seen more than 2 couples using the group room at the same time. We have never attended a party that became an orgy with people just lying around in naked piles licking and sucking and fucking anything that moved. The vast majority of the time at the parties we've attended, a man and a woman just decide to go upstairs and have some fun together, usually by themselves, or sometimes 2 attached couples go up together to enjoy each other's partners. But mostly it's a freelance affair, where everyone is more or less "on their own" in regard to hooking up with someone. Basically, everyone just gets a "menu" with more than one entree choice on it, and your spouse or S.O. doesn't have to order the same entree as you are having. I've heard about groups where the door gets locked at 10 p.m. and everyone just gets naked together on the floor, but we've never seen that and it's not our style, so we aren't likely to ever be at an "orgy." On the other hand, we've enjoyed a number of small parties where we and the same 3 other couples got together and everyone had some time enjoying all 3 opposite-gender "entrees" during the evening, but again they were either private sessions or just 2 couples together in one bed. I guess Orgies Aren't Us. - - Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have zero experience with orgies, so can't give an opinion. We have a question though... When in an orgy, do people pretty much give up on the ideal of safer sex (because they find it too impractical)? Or do guys actually keep changing condoms every time they switch from one female to the next?
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	there all kinds of ways to play group play . What your all describing is an orgy , bodies laying everywhere one rolling off to another.. try finding a situation where 5 are pleasing the one and taking turns on each.You stay focused on whats at hand .As long as when you have been pleased thats not the end of your game. Group play a has as many situations as one on one with another couple.Just have to open your mind, try and experiment with more then one thought of how it should be done and enjoy the creativity and passion for sex.. Mostly a group scene is not about you getting yours its the pleasure of others and what your willing to give to others instead of what you want to have done to you. In the situations where we have had a group of people we have known, the woman were all pleased by all both by males and females once that was accomplished then it was the guys turn as everyone knows a guy is more easily pleased sexually. How we have done it was to take each woman everybody undressing her .pleasuring her total body from head to toe. by all, until everyone is naked and havign some sort of fun.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Our favorite is one or two other couples in a nice setting. But every now and then we get in slut mood and then the bigger the puppy pile the better. The thing that does tick me off royally is in club playrooms when you're with whatever size group and all these looky loos think the have the right to just walk by and play snatch and grab.
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Couple play is our "cup of tea". We don't care for the group scenario, it's awefully distractive. Mrs. Things
Honolulu HI			Username hidden (1488 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have enjoyed both but couple to couple is definitely our preferred way to play!
Center Valley PA			Username hidden (8499 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We definitely prefer 1-on-1 play over group play. Multitasking detracts from the fun for us. Even at a private swing party, we avoid group piles and go for 2 or 3 1-on-1 encounters during the course of the party. Since we can't pat our heads and rub our bellies at the same time without messing it up, there's no way we can please two or more people at once. And since, for us, pleasing a playmate is a great deal of the pleasure we derive from swinging, multitasking combined with our inability to walk & chew gum at the same time leaves us preferring 1-on-1 encounters.
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We only recently had our first group experience and while it was a lot of fun and we'll probably do it again if the right situation arrises, we have to agree that the multi-tasking makes it difficult to focus and enjoy the moment, even if you are the center of attention. Sensory overload definitely came into play!! We think that for us, group play could be an occasional nice warm up before pairing off and moving on to a more intimate setting where we can focus on our partner without distraction.
Odessa TX			Username hidden (28 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My wife enjoys groups very much as well as couples. For me, I prefer couples to groups on most occasions. It's probably 50/50, when it comes to groups, on whether they have been truly enjoyable or just a nice experience for me. I'd have to echo the multi-tasking comment of Poly. I find other people trying to play with my partner at the same time to be terribly distracting. Also, the laughers and gigglers can at times drive me nuts. Oddly enough, the laughing and joking around doesn't bother me in the least if it's the person I'm playing with. It has only been a problem when it was another person/couple in the room.
Jennings LA			Username hidden (771 post)

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