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"Clubs are fun to meet at if you're feeling indifferent, lets wait and see but I find it makes it difficult to really talk"

we are lucky our club has several places away from the main dance floor/dj area where it is quieter and very easy to talk with nice comfy sofa' I just have to ignore the porn which is my biggest swing club pet peeve. Porn playing everywhere. Ugh.

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Our preference is drinks, we know right away if this is a Hell No Ain't happening. We don't don't have a signal between us to know what the other is thinking, we read each other very well but understand for some people it is critical and I highly recommend it if you're worried you won't be sure where your partner stands. Mr Sav reads me like a book, no words are necessary . I can just look him in the eye and I know his thoughts in regards to anyone as well. We do not like to do dinner, I have no desire to be trapped into extended contact with anyone, should it happen to go that way. We've had too many expensive dinners served with lousy company. We don't rule them out and occasionally make a concession but our preference is a drink with the option of dinner if everyone is on board AFTER meeting. We've yet to run into anyone who became intoxicated while meeting us for the first time nor has it been our experience the people we chose "need" to drink large quantities to have fun. Weather permitting some place with nice outdoor seating and off the beaten track. Clubs are fun to meet at if you're feeling indifferent, lets wait and see but I find it makes it difficult to really talk. Mrs Sav

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Sophia, we feel the same way as you in many respects. We don't drink alcohol so standing or sitting around in a bar, trying to hear and be heard over the heavy drinkers and loud music really doesn't appeal. We prefer meeting for dinner where it's possible to have a private conversation and get to know one another. If we click, then a date will be made to get together in the future. If not, we let them know by email after Mr. Scandle and I discuss our impressions of the other couple.

We have attended hotel takeovers and moved things forward much more quickly, but we prefer to take the dinner meeting approach. If we like the people, getting to know them better can be very arousing.

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We are like Sed. We don't have a preference and tend to play it by ear.

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We have met couples for drinks at bars, & have gone to clubs & house parties. While we enjoy all three venues, we actually prefer a club or house party. That way if the interest is there, we can act on it. We aren't usually ones to meet & greet & wait!!! ;)

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I'm not a loud talker but I can hear conversations at dinner tables several away from ours with people talking in normal voices. Today at lunch I got to hear a whole conversation by the couple next to me and my kids about all the activities they had planned with the church for the next several days. And the table behind us? they just went and got a new I-pad and a big screen TV yesterday that are just awesome. oh and they didn't like the spider weave shirt I had on. Not to mention the hostess at the station about 4 tables down is having issues with her boyfriend.

Trooper most likely wouldn't have heard any of it, but his ears aren't as sensitive as mine thanks to being in tanks with the guns going off for years.

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Ps we don't have preferences and nothing is set in stone. We play it by ear.

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Just how loud are you that you're worried about others overhearing you?

I can have a full conversation right next to other people and you wouldn't hear anything.

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Since we have young kids meeting on a week-night for a cup of coffee and dessert is out even when Trooper is in town. And frankly I don't know how in the heck one talks to people about swing related stuff in a regular setting. I want to find out what someone likes, doesn't like etc. We get on average one night out for swing type activities a month if we are lucky. I don't want to wait until 11-12pm for the bars to even have people in them to go meet someone, have them be someone I don't want to swing with then be faced with the "do we hit the club or go home?" and race to get to the club before they lock the doors at 1.

I'm a pretty lazy swinger. If your local couple and you don't want to meet us at the club you most likely will not meet us. I want to go where I can dance sexy, wear little or nothing and not have to watch what I say or do. I also want it to be easy to get away from people I don't have an interest in. Now if someone local that really made both of us go ooooooooo from their profile and pics we might make an exception but that happened once. And they bailed at the last minute.

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BandP,

The thought behind it is if the dinner is painful to sit through, or the couple is a pain in our ass, pain is the best way to indicate no go.

If the other couple is turning us on, rubbing upper thighs just gets it going all the more.

We thought about using a word or sentence. But we have had some really weird conversations with others that venture off into all kinds of weird subjects, it may not be possible to use our 'chosen' words or phrases.

No, confusion on our part.

Sophia

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