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Argh... man-toe, that's just gross!

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It goes without saying that you never get a second chance to make a first impression. This is our approach to everything in life.

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Well it also has to be appropriate for the venue you will be attending. If we're just going to have a few drinks at Chilis or something, jeans and decent shirts it is. She's not going to put on super-slutty clothes for that.

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The OP is accompanied by a picture of a male who DOES appear to be "dressed for a wedding or a prom" . And this line --

"... amazed at the number of play dates who arrive with only some preparation in their grooming and overall appearance."

I guess I am perpetually guilty of "only some preparation" in this area. What more should be expected? Unlimited and ongoing preparation?

Unless I'm misinterpreting something, I definitely categorize this as undue emphasis on superficialities.

GENERALIZATION ALERT: People who obsess over superficial stuff are generally covering a lack of depth somewhere.

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I have traveled all over the world and have seen cultures that, well leave you wondering how people can live like that, smell, and just plain ol ' nasty. Then to come back to the states and see people living similarly is just mind boggling, this is not a third world country. Even if you are limited in what you have make the best of what you've got. Nobody expects the "perfect man / woman " but if you have pride in yourself you should show it.

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For me and mine, we KNOW you have got to be clean :ie -shower, like the work I do, it dirty, greasy, hot and after a long shift I want to get the crud off. Sadly sometimes I'll have grease stains on my hands that don't wash off as much as I want, but I have been known to bleach them so I felt clean. Its a major turn off to "meet "others who don't get the idea of proper cleaning weather it is hygienic or household. At our home you might find a basket of clean laundry needing folding, but with teenagers it never laundry never ends. I don't mind a lived in look as long as its not like a hobo lives there. And for petesakes wash the damn dishes..

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VA I carry those little disposable toothbrushes in every purse I own right along with condoms, wet wipes, and floss among other things.

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Right - they shouldn't look like they are going to a wedding or their senior prom. But they should have reasonably NICE clothes, and clean above all.

Teeth are a big deal to us. Someone who can't brush their damn teeth? C-YA

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We aren't overly impressed by the "packaging" that people put themselves into. As others have stated, overdoing the cologne and makeup are definite turnoffs.

Most important is that a person is comfortable in what they're wearing. Casual clothing is not at all related to being dirty. Dressing up is not a good substitute for cleanliness.

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BLT2LAST:

Nothing I could tell you would properly explain to you what you're getting yourself into here..... just... don't.

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