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TOPIC: Does it turn you on when your partner makes sounds during sex
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I'll be listening in Pittsburgh.

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The turn on is when it is obvious that you are doing a few things right. Whether it is passed on through moans, words, eyes rolling back, or even a well placed bite matters not to me.

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Well, I (Ms.) am actually pretty quiet during sex, not loud at all, as I am getting into it with not only my body, but usually mind, body & soul, sounds pretty corny, but I have never been a screamer. Will be somewhat vocal or louder than usual on a mind blowing orgasm and some mind blowing sex, but that is it. Now, Mr. Wildlife sometimes is pretty loud (mainly with me) and hearing a man actually being vocal during orgasm is a fantastic turn on for me in and of itself. Guess we are backwards!

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Being female gives me a different impression on noisy females. I agree "porno" noise making is distracting. My gf and I have spent many a night laughing our asses off because of a nearby chick faking it. It IS distracting.

Another thing that cracks us up? Pile driver sex that rattles our room it's so hard. I don't know about everyone else. But, I need it softer and slower to FEEL it. You pound me and I go numb.

My gf was very noisy one evening. After a couple of hours the lights came on. When I exited the room at night's end, a guy 4 doors down commented. "Thank God you are finally done!!" She and I were making more legitimate noise than a group of 6 down the hall. We laughed our asses off again. ;)

Agree with the ladies, some noise is distracting.

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Oh yes, have to have the noise. When my partner is silent it's a real turn off to me. I don't care for talk that gets too trashy though. And don't even think of using the "C" word on me. I like to listen to other people too. But have you ever been in an on premise club and had to listen to a woman that has obviously watched one too many porn flicks and thinks that's how you're supposed to sound? Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah..............................

I always start laughing.

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Listening. That's why I like swing club rooms with no ceilings. Those are the best.

Glen Burnie MD
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Really about the only sound we do not enjoy while playing with others.... the jingle of car keys that signal the end of a great evening.

Mrs Free very much enjoys being talked to in many nice forms while playing but gets so into it that is often unable to speak....

Mr Free very much enjoys talking in a seductive way while playing and is not shy at all about really getting into it if it draws the proper response from another lady....

As for natural sounds that are part of great sex..... Like all of the senses, sound is simply one that greatly adds to an erotic evening at home or out with others, especially when out with others.....

And as for hearing our partners while playing with others.... easily one of the hottest aspects of swing!!!

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I agree with mischief, noise is both applause and feedback. I love "putting on a good show". As any actor knows you feed from the energy the audience gives you. Applause, gasps, laughter, all tell you what will and won't work, what bits to milk and what to cut short. Sex is the ultimate communication between people, use all possble means, sights, sounds, touches, smells, smoke signals if you need to, to make that communication open and intense.

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Talking/noises during sex serves several purposes.

A former regularly made wonderful man noises. Grunts, moans, loooog sighs. It was wonderful to have feedback that my work was paying off.

I encourage women to talk. Not easy to do. I need direct feedback about where, how, rate, what's working, don't stop works well for openers.

I give very direct feedback. "More to the left" has caused a nonorgasmic situation to become a back arching, throbbing good time.

My gf and I laugh sometimes in clubs. A woman is very loudly making herself known. It's clear she's acting a part.

Genuine noise making is great. A barrage of noise isn't.

For those want to naturally increase their verbal feedback. Suggest sighing, moaning, when exhaling. That should get you started.

M. Has screamed at times.

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I love to have fun,rather have laughing fun while having sex. Really am not much of a trash talker ot that i can't just have never cared much for that kind of thing. I and we have never looked at someone and thought that they are a slut for being where they are. I am the first one to call myself a male slut though. I laugh at screamers they crack me up, I know its good and great and feels oh so wonderful but it ain't that great to have parts of the ceiling falling down from screams of passion.Moaning is fine though a nice long hmmmmmmmmmmmm works also.

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