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"I guess my main fear is that he will play separtely and then leave me for someone else. "

This statement really stands out, and I copied it before I read Seduction's response and I totally agree.

You just simply will not enjoy this is you have that sort of feeling. And NO, not everyone has these feelings. Never once has either of us thought the other might get attracted to someone else, play separately, and leave each other for another person. If you have those insecurities, you might as well stop right now, because you ARE going to feel hurt, jealous, insecure, and have all sorts of "issues."

Work on your own issues before you "sit your husband down" for some sort of long talk and corner him into saying what you need to hear in order to feel good about the choices you are making. You both have to feel secure, stable, committed and you have to communicate openly and honestly, have a lot of trust and togetherness.

That said, since we do have those above qualities and we do have that between us, we are free to play separately if we wish...however, we MUCH prefer to be together...it's simply a matter of enjoying this whole thing a lot more when we enjoy it together.

Good luck, Gina

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We play in the same room, this way we can watch and what a turn on. Later we talk about our experiences , and some times we learn some new ways to please each other. Neither one of us want to play separately we love being and playing together

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However, he has told me about other people out there he feels attracted to, and I guess my main fear is that he will play separtely and then leave me for someone else.

How is he "attracted 'to these other people. That in itself would matter to me.

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we have done both, to us it depends on the people we meet and comfort levels of those involved.

Burlingham NY
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We have done both. Prefer separate room.


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I shouldn't have answered a question with a question.

Together- mostly same room, but have done separate room.

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together

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Does masturbation count?

Brooklyn Park MN
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we do both

Louisville KY
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We have played seperately but we much prefer playing together.

Carrie

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