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I suck at getting my point across.

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Of the three couples we spoke of:

1. We knew from the vanilla world. 2. We met at an event. 3. We met from SLS.

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We view swinging as fucking the people that we find attractive. Neither one of us had a mentor when we were dating. We recognized our feelings when we came across the people that we found attractive. Same with swinging. It's not a scripted activity for us. Mentoring us on how to recognize that we want to fuck another person or a couple seems a bit odd to us. Safer sex? is something that we should all know before we even start having sex for the first time. Where to go to meet other swingers? where did you meet your mentor? :).

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No mentors for us. We prefer to just, um, feel things out on our own.

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Did you have a couple who helped get you going in the lifestyle?

We had one which we explored a lot with (but not full swap), and we had another full swap couple who put up with a lot of our bullshit while we sorted things out. We are eternally grateful to them in helping us through our first year. We were drama queens for some time, and they put up with us while we worked it out. Bless them.

We also had another couple who gave us what can best be described as a "brain dump" - telling us what they understood about the lifestyle and all that comes with it. While we never played with them again, we see them out on occasion, and always make a point of saying hello. Although they barely remember us, I think, we remember them.

How about you?

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