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TOPIC: Certs Their Proper Use
Created by: PittCouple412
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We avoid certs for precisely this reason. I'm sure it means some people don't think we're real and it costs us a little, but we've had people who get upset by this sort of thing.

I'm not saying it makes sense, but it happens. We have a few trusted couples that we can freely share notes with about others. Mostly, we only share notes when it comes to crazy people.

We had two different couples in one day ask us if we knew someone. We're like yes - those people are fucking nuts. They were going around telling everyone that we were their trophies or something. We never even played with them - we had met them at a party, they acted bizarre, and we stayed away from them, although we're polite if we see them, for the sake of just trying to remain cordial.

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IF Pitt's experience is EXACTLY as (s)he described (including the extra info that was coaxed out ... the, "I'm sure they'll say the same thing about us." part), then the reaction of the "new" and the "old" couple sound very strange. But, if this situation is just as Pitt described it, I think the Pitts are better off finding the weirdness out now, rather than spending any time at all with the "new" couple or wasting any MORE time with the "old" couple.

However, there almost HAS to be something else going on here. This story is just too ???!!

I would expect a situation like this, "Hey, I see you know (ScreenID) Jane&John4You!," migrating nicely into a 3-couple puppy pile, instead of a giant cluster-fuck, such as Pitt described.

"One side of the story alert," is RIGHT. :-/

The whole purpose of certifications, in my opinion, is to facilitate the networking of swingers in finding other swingers and to feel safe with them, based on some level of common ground (the "Hey, we both know so-and-so!!" "Yeah, let's meet to see if we click!" -thing).

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How?

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Maybe someone can translate it?

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He is eminently certifiable.

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Weird is an understatement.

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* There are several kinds of people on here that are looking to meet others and those are the real people I want to meet.*

This part was weird!

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I'd love to hear the version of this story from the other two couples.

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No doubt.

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No problem here, Akron.

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