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TOPIC: Certs
Created by: Seduction4Two
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I *would* think that certs are very beneficial to the success of singles - male and female.

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I don't know about that. Despite the fact that I understand fully that not all certs mean that people had sex with you, the more that I think about it, the more I find it, not for us :).

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"Then I remembered the Single Male Motto - Move on! LOL"

I thought the Single Male Motto was more certs the better! LOL

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Cert before you kiss Mr Putin?

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If there are no certs I just get tic-tacs or breath-savers.

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I would say it is more important as a SM to have certs to try to distinguish himself from the masses but I do struggle with some of the same concerns VA expressed. In addition, I wonder how many is too many and how to decide who to delete. Naturally I want to paint myself in the best light possible so some I will keep as long as they will let me but does an older cert send the right message? I believe I should delete the certs from those who I no longer stay in touch with but there are some that just make me smile at the recollection.

Oh well, enough of memory lane. I do not rely on certs to tell me about a couple and certainly do not require they have certs but I do appreciate it when they menition in their profile why they choose not to have them or at least tell me. I never expect a cert after meeting but if I offer one and it gets declined without explanation, I would feel I had disappointed them (her).

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I waffle occasionally but we are pretty zen with our decision to not give or accept certs. Va was more honest about it below than I might have been but that pretty sums it up for us, too.

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If people require certs to consider us, so be it. We just don't roll that way.

That said, we do look at the certs of others.

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When I was reading this I was thinking to myself, "Self, if you don't have any certs and people need you to have certs to see you, how you gonna get certs if no one will give you certs even if you met?"

Then I remembered the Single Male Motto - Move on! LOL

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I deleted all of our certs! I'm going to delete the ones that we wrote to others. Please accept my apology guys. And I hope that you understand.

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TOPIC: Certs