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TOPIC: Can someone please answer this HARD question
Created by: sophiasays69
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Last night was our one month on the site and in this lifestyle. It has been an eye opening experience in many ways. BUT, I have this question (broken down into three questions) that is killing me because I do not understand. I am writing it in the general forum because I want both male and female opinions.

General question: What is the benefit for males to hold off on cuming if they never do? Male question: If you do this, why do you do this and what made you think it was a great thing? Female question: Do you feel cheated when a man doesn't cum because he was holding off to make it better for you?

Why is this question bothering me? I guess I am naive and believe that the joy of sex is the release for both men and women. I guess I look at it as a personal failure on my part if the sex wasn't so damn hot that he couldn't help himself from cuming. Okay, before you say it is done because they would ejaculate and be done and limp, I know that happens. Does sex really have to be over at that moment, can't it move to other things and still be a boat load of fun? I have been told by a number of guys and from their female partners they do this because for the females benefit. Really?

See, I am plagued by this and will do everything in my power to stop this from happening, because I do love ....... well fill in nearly every thing you can think of, but a happy ending is a happy ending for both.

Anyways, can someone please enlighten me.

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PB- I give in to laughter... your posts are very relentertaining!

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Also, I wanted to reenact scenes from The Lord of The Rings, but I had difficulty finding a real Ent

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I found it difficult to maintain my promise to the church, so I re-Lented so I could feel better.

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Relent less.

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The word master.... ;)

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Or capitulimaxed?

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So... you mean she succame?

Sorry, I wanted to stay out of this, but then I relented. :^/

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We have come (cum?) full circle. When it's no longer entirely fun, but your playmate is just determined to "make you cum", you may yield, give in, capitulate, concede, succumb, and have an orgasm.

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Except you used the word RELENTED not relent! So your dictionary search is not valid. You can't define a word you didn't use just because it is a present tense of the past tense you used. The tenses change the meaning of the word.

relented past participle, past tense of re┬Ělent (Verb) Verb Abandon or mitigate a harsh intention or cruel treatment. (esp. of bad weather) Become less severe or intense.

More info - Merriam-Webster - The Free Dictionary

You stated "the Mrs has also relented and had an orgasm because the guy was so insistent. This is not her preferred way to go there, but it did get the session over with."

I can think of a number of ways to 'get the session over with' which begins with not having a SESSION but having fun.

Sophia,

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Well, curiosity has gotten the better of me. Did I misappropriate the word "relent"? Online Merriam-Webster says:

1a : to become less severe, harsh, or strict usually from reasons of humanity b : to cease resistance : give in 2 : let up, slacken

Synonyms blink, bow, budge, capitulate, concede, give in, knuckle under, quit, yield, submit, succumb, surrender

Antonyms resist

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