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Ok,
Serious question. I am going out to visit my ex wife in Ca. She has breast cancer. I am already going to have my head shaved with the Breast Cancer Ribbon. I am considering having a tattoo on my heart with the same ribbon. My question is simple.....how would you feel if an ex showed up with this tattoo? Please no sarcastic comments. Thanks.. Pete |
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Ready, I am very sorry that your family is going through this and I hope treatment is successful for her. Do not worry....there is never a good time for things like cancer. You are doing an admirable thing for her.
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A BIG thanks for all of the replies. It helped ALOT!!!
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I have to agree with Shelly and Sed and a few others, I also don't think you should shave your head, She is use to seeing you with hair so seeing you with a shaved head each time she looks at you reminds her that she has cancer.
As Shelly has said, treat her as you did before she had cancer, and when she does need someone by her side that's when you should be there. |
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Ready,
It is so great to hear that you wish to support her. I would not shave my head, nor tattoo anything on myself. I'd just be there, with her, supporting her. To me that would mean a whole lot. The best of luck to your ex and you. |
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ReadyToGo219, you've gotten some great advice here. All I want to add is that I admire you for wanting to do all you can to support your ex-wife in her battle. Not everyone would do that.
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Thanks for ALL of your feedback. Kinda strange I guess.....I never EVER thought that I would be discussing this topic.....Once again thanks!! Pete
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My question is simple.....how would you feel if an ex showed up with this tattoo?"
First of all, I think what you are doing is a wonderful, sweet and beautiful thing. Showing your support for your ex, or anyone who is being treated for cancer is wonderful. With Jay and I, we have been together since I was 18 and he was 20..and we have 3 kids together. Any ex would have to accept from jump the fact that we would always be intertwined in our lives. I would not be upset at all because I think what you are doing is admirable. I cannot speak for anyone else though. |
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You're very welcome.
Trust me, I understand. |
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Thanks Bridge....I mean that....
I have done A LOT of research. Trust me!! As you are well aware although words are comforting and even though she is my ex, it does not make it easier. But it will. I am sure you would understand, being a man, that you want to take the pain and hurt away from the people you care about. But once again, I REALLY thank you for your feedback. Thanks.... Pete |
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TOPIC: Breast Cancer Awareness For the woman
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