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We’re newbies to the lifestyle and use SLS more for the great advice provided by veteran swingers on the forums than for anything else. Overlooking the occasional squabbling here and there, the forums here have been a great resource for lifestyle information. We’ve probably read hundreds of threads ranging from “best make-up tips” over in the Women Talk Forum to “how to apply the perfect pressure when using a crop” over on BDSM. In each of these threads, there were always one or more members willing to share their best advice. Before deciding upon this adventure, I read a book titled Swinging 101 or something like that. My hope with this thread is to gather as much useful information under one title as possible. . All you LS veterans, aside from “make you are having fun” and “communicate with your partner”, what is the one piece of swinger of advice (your golden nugget sort of speak) that you would give to a newbie couple like us? This could be anything: simple - “bring your own towels to a house party” or funny - “don’t shoot your load into her eyes; you can blind her” or more complicated – “never mess around with a couple in crisis”.

Created by: livewirecpl
Original Starting post for this thread:

We’re newbies to the lifestyle and use SLS more for the great advice provided by veteran swingers on the forums than for anything else.  Overlooking the occasional squabbling here and there, the forums here have been a great resource for lifestyle information.  We’ve probably read hundreds of threads ranging from “best make-up tips” over in the Women Talk Forum to “how to apply the perfect pressure when using a crop” over on BDSM.   In each of these threads, there were always one or more members willing to share their best advice. 

Before deciding upon this adventure, I read a book titled Swinging 101 or something like that.  My hope with this thread is to gather as much useful information under one title as possible.
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All you LS veterans, aside from “make you are having fun” and “communicate with your partner”, what is the one piece of swinger of advice (your golden nugget sort of speak) that you would give to a newbie couple like us?  This could be anything:  simple -  “bring your own towels to a house party” or funny  - “don’t shoot your load into her eyes; you can blind her” or more complicated –  “never mess around with a couple in crisis”.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Jay and I know each other well. He knows me, he can look at my body language and tell whether or not I am having fun or not. Safe words are wonderful, esp. in the beginning. Just make sure that when the safe word is used, it is completely understood that it does not mean it is a word to spark argument or negotiation. It means play is stopped, no questions asked. Talk about why later of course...but do not argue at the time.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23612 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have a "safety" word, per se, that we will use if we need to step aside and talk about what's going on. This way we can talk and get out if we need to. It's funny how issues with the kiddo at home can crop up when an escape is needed.
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User Details are only visible to members.	"One question..how do extricate yourself from a playdate turned bad? " "Sorry...I'm getting really tired..." I mean - at this point - do you care much about what they think of you?
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User Details are only visible to members.	Cum collect, PG!
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User Details are only visible to members.	eric you owe me a new laptop...
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User Details are only visible to members.	Roll her over.... Pull out and spit on her back. :)
Harmony FL			Username hidden (192 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks to everyone who posted to this thread. The advice you provided is very much appreciated. One question..how do extricate yourself from a playdate turned bad?
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User Details are only visible to members.	Relax, it's just sex! Well said, Carrie!!!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Just have fun and don't over think it. It is just sex, after all. ;) Carrie
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User Details are only visible to members.	The #1 best advice for us, and that we wish someone had told us when we were first starting, is to never play on first meet. I know not all of you agree with this, but for us it really works. Kat
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