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TOPIC: Attempted Persecution In Court For Swinging
Created by: SweetAddiction
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Last tuesday, my ex wife attempted to discredit my parental ability by having her lawyer (rhymes with liar) make a big deal as to my lifestyle choice. The judge asked them if they knew of my "swinging" in front of my child. They said no and the judge (possibly a swinger) said " What he does in his personal sex life is his business." They even had my profile pictures with them. (thank goodness I'm modest lol! When that didn't work, the lawyer accused me of viewing pornographic material in front of my child. The Judge asked for proof. They had none. He warned them on accusing me without proof. CAN I SUE THEM FOR SLANDER OR DEFAMATION?

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great new pic usto!

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Great point "US". But I have nothing to hide. She can "have at it". Thanks for the input.

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My only question was: They accused me of something untrue, unprovable and criminal in a court, in front of a master, on tape. Can I and should I pursue damages for defamation? Her side of the story, Mr. Threat, was a specific statement which I feel damaged for. The valuable opinions of the good people (some professional lawyers) were both publicly and privately displayed and it helped me to make a choice on whether or not to continue with litigation. Thats the purpose of my intention here and I feel justified. Please let me know if I can assist you at some point. I'm a DJ and know many song titles. ;-)

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Washington County is not the only "good ole boys", there are many, try Cambria, the capital of nepotism.

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email received, ah I now see. how come that info was left out??Isn't it crucial to the opinions about why???

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Hey Perfect.......... Washington County sure is the "good ol' boys club"!!! I have lived here long enough to know that!! D. is the one going through the custody fight right now..........I already had mine. Mine was a whole lot nicer and easier to go through and while I wished the same for him, it is quite apparent that things will not go that way. It can be frustrating at times, but I simply keep hope that it will all work out for the best interest of the child!

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I agree with Val 110 % .

My parents divorce was ugly. Us kids were split up. They bad mouthed each other and we were in the middle. I vowed that I would never do that to my children.

I have two children from my first marriage. They have never heard a bad word cross my mouth about their father. He was wrong for me but is very right for them. We will share the same grandkids. I do not want my children to feel they cannot have both their parents at any event they have for their children. Nope I will not do that to my kids. Hide it be the better person for yourself and your kids. You and your children will heal so much faster.

My ex husband just brought our son home from his first week of sleep away camp. He was here for about an hour and a half. We had a pleasant conversation about our kids. They also see this. They will have more stability in their future. They will also hopefully make better descisions seeing how we interact with each other. so they do their lives right.

If you take this to court. You will have no right to say anything about her. You will be no better in the kids eyes. being the bigger person is really your best choice. Speak only about what is necessary to her. i.e. The children and what they need. Nothing of your past life. Just its over so say well that over now no need to worry nor discuss just go on. You will feel better and it will drive her nuts.

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Any of you who are divorced and have children will benefit greatly from trying your best to be as civil as possible with your ex, and from swearing NEVER to say anything bad about your ex.

I recently asked my 35-year-old daughter to name something that we did as parents that was RIGHT, and she without hesitation said "Your divorce. Neither of you ever tried to turn me against the other. And all my friends said that after the divorce my Dad would disappear, but you didn't."

She is still the light of my life. Hold your tongue about your ex and your kids will love you for it. If they don't already know what caused the divorce, they will figure it out on their own.

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your very lucky count your blessings. We know a woman who lost custody of her children due to the pictures her hubby had of her screwing other people in swing. Of course there were none of him. When you have a very good lawyer you have done well.If not your out of luck . So many other interesting questions such as are you going through divorce and now its at the visitation stage or joint custody? Is she trying to get the rules changed after the fact ?So many more questions. Best advice has been given either: get an attorney or to let it go.

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"now now, VA play nice, don't want the forum police spanking you for posting prejudice remarks......

....or do you?"

Hmmm. That might depend on the particular police officer. Are YOU a police officer? :-)

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