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remember that people who behave in such ways are revealing much about themselves.

so true. you can learn alot from emails and the forum from how people respond.

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I can't even begin to tell you how many couples who say we are "exactly like them" have contacted us where several of the following are true:

- They are 25+ years older - Their pictures are primarily of them standing amongst the junk in their yard in their dirty wifebeater shirts and unwashed hair, or posing with nothing but guns and dead animals. - The guy is bi - They are looking for girl-girl only (or even guy-guy only) - They refuse to use condoms - Their profile looks like it was written by a drunk orangutan pounding on a typewriter.

So basically someone just shot off an email without having read your profile. While I'm never nasty to people like this, we had one couple who decided we weren't hot enough for them reply with "Why are you writing to us? We clearly said we wanted attractive people. If I wanted to sleep with a heifer I would go to a farm."

I'm not making that up. While it was insulting, remember that people who behave in such ways are revealing much about themselves.

I guess I don't know what you want management to do... lecture them on proper etiquette? The people are jerks and you know all you need to know. I might have replied to that email with something to the effect of "I'm sorry, you initially contacted me stating we were 'exactly alike'. So, I went along with that concept. If there's been a misunderstanding there is no reason to be abusive and rude. Good luck finding what you're looking for, but perhaps you should read people's profiles more carefully before stating they are 'exactly alike'."

Just let it go. I'm telling you. Let it go.

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lancer, alot of people lie in their profiles. some men that used to be listed as bi or bi curious are now listed as straight, probably because they didnt get the response they wanted by being honest. i think it is great that you are being honest. but you really should just report them or block them. by not just letting it go, it reflects badly on you. its just better to move on. you will run into some great people here, and some assholes too.

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Melvin - where did you get your big boy pants? I have a pair but they are too big for me now?

Lancer - let it go, it's just the internet and people are much bolder (and more stupid). BLOCK - it does a body good!

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Walks in glances at Lancer winks, runs thumb from the top, to the tip of her nose and grins. Call me big boy. I'll beat them up 4u. Blows kiss!

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What do you want done specifically ? A call to arms and everyone email them and demand apologies for you?

Maybe we can all type .....

You meany fuckers shouldn't email back nasty replays.

Sorry they hurt your feelings but you should move on .

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As I said, you can report them if you want to. The only thing they will do is send a note to them telling them to be nice. Personally I wouldn't give a stranger, on the internet, that much power over me but to each their own.

Carrie

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You can email customer service and voice your complaint. They can access the email and see the content. I have no idea what if anything they will do but it's worth a shot.

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Uh oh.

Belle Chasse LA
 
 
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"Block them and move on" is NOT an acceptable option.

Why should I be subjected to abuse and then meekly take it? I don't think you would let it slide if someone said to your face what was said to me in the email. How is it any different? If I had said something to someone else like what was said to me, I would expect that my account would be deleted.

Why are we not going to hold people accountable for their behavior?

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