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The couple probably either lost interest in you, or something you said turned them off. Just saying...... We had an SM recently that after both of us speaking to him on the phone; wanted me (female half) to give him phone sex, on the first call!! THAT turned me off so badly, that we did not correspond with him after that. I don't feel that we are responsible for informing SMs why they were dropped. Not our job to "train" people in manners and Finesse.

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As a single guy, the random no-communication happens often. The way I see it; they saved me to trouble. If they were truly worth knowing after a few communications, then they wouldn't randomly disappear. Now, I've had situations where that unexplained gap in talks was explained (and understood), and we worked out well. But generally I see it as a sign to move on. No hard feelings, just part of the process.

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I'm guessing everyone is looking for a "quality".....whatever that may mean to them. When we first entered this arena, I hate calling it a lifestyle, I wanted to play much more frequently than my husband. So, with his suggestion, I played alone with "quality" sm. This, in turn, enriched our sex lives at home greatly. After being married 20 years, sex had become just good.... not AMAZING as it could be. I was not attempting to replace my husband, or fill a void in our relationship. In fact, my solo play enhanced our marriage in numerous ways....sexually & otherwise. Now, I still have a few sm I see regularly, but we also play regularly as a couple. We've become close friends with other couples, & have even traveled with them. I guess the point I'm trying to get across is that there's definitely a place for sm & sf. I'm not attempting to belittle them nor their place here. I'm just using my own reference of "quality", which is more than just the sexual performance he brings to the bed. There's trust, honesty, & integrity at the top of my list.

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I can't speak for everyone else, but I like calling myself a "man-whore."

As for potential play friends, I only have a few criteria: intelligence, personality, sense of humor, and attractiveness. The more of these traits a person/couple has, the more likely I'll want to keep them as friends as well as fuck buddies.

The folks I avoid: high maintenance people with too much drama. Having sex should be fun and I've got no interest in working through all your emotional bullshit.

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Gray is great.

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Words like selective and quality are tossed around so frequently I've come to decide what they mean is the write doesn't not want to be viewed as a slut or promiscuous. They also want you to know that they, being such quality themselves are frequently required to thumb their noses at the rest of us of whores of SLS who simply are not or can not be as discriminating as they are. For those of you who use words like "extremely picky" " highly selective" etc take a moment to think about what you just said and in turn implied ,That the rest of us simply sleep with everybody and everyone or at least you presume we do. Mrs Sav

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Outdoors, I reread it and it did sound funny. Like that Buckaroo Bonzai quote. No matter where you go, there you are. No worries. I took no offense.

As for the word "quality", like anything else its subjective. Might as well say good or bad. Gray. Now, that's the new black.

I hate being called late for dinner, too.

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I have no problem that others want to use any term that they want. I explained my outlook on it, and how I view it.

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I guess it is semantics. You may use the term desirable or acceptable or fuckable but in the end, you use SOME word to define your standard of acceptance and the term "quality" happens to be what others use.

Call me whatever you want, just don't call me late for dinner.

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I never think of the people that i find hot as "quality."

I describe them in many ways. Quality is not in my jargon to describe human beings.

And the less that I know whom they/he/she fucks the better.

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