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I would have liked to have read that myself. Thank you!

No worries. Str8, classy, high quality SM are in pretty high demand. Regardless of being almost 50. Bonus points granted for those who can read.

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your double screwed Bridge, they don't want anyone over 48 either.

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Bndfun, After taking a peek at your profile photo, I was hoping to spend a little time doing some reading, but your profile is closed to SMs. Damn those SM bastards who can't read!! ;-)

They queer the deal for everyone!

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I have found that out about couples... you drop a mail, no reply!

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We have figured out that single guys just DONT know how to read.. So oh well lol

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The couple probably either lost interest in you, or something you said turned them off. Just saying...... We had an SM recently that after both of us speaking to him on the phone; wanted me (female half) to give him phone sex, on the first call!! THAT turned me off so badly, that we did not correspond with him after that. I don't feel that we are responsible for informing SMs why they were dropped. Not our job to "train" people in manners and Finesse.

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As a single guy, the random no-communication happens often. The way I see it; they saved me to trouble. If they were truly worth knowing after a few communications, then they wouldn't randomly disappear. Now, I've had situations where that unexplained gap in talks was explained (and understood), and we worked out well. But generally I see it as a sign to move on. No hard feelings, just part of the process.

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I'm guessing everyone is looking for a "quality".....whatever that may mean to them. When we first entered this arena, I hate calling it a lifestyle, I wanted to play much more frequently than my husband. So, with his suggestion, I played alone with "quality" sm. This, in turn, enriched our sex lives at home greatly. After being married 20 years, sex had become just good.... not AMAZING as it could be. I was not attempting to replace my husband, or fill a void in our relationship. In fact, my solo play enhanced our marriage in numerous ways....sexually & otherwise. Now, I still have a few sm I see regularly, but we also play regularly as a couple. We've become close friends with other couples, & have even traveled with them. I guess the point I'm trying to get across is that there's definitely a place for sm & sf. I'm not attempting to belittle them nor their place here. I'm just using my own reference of "quality", which is more than just the sexual performance he brings to the bed. There's trust, honesty, & integrity at the top of my list.

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I can't speak for everyone else, but I like calling myself a "man-whore."

As for potential play friends, I only have a few criteria: intelligence, personality, sense of humor, and attractiveness. The more of these traits a person/couple has, the more likely I'll want to keep them as friends as well as fuck buddies.

The folks I avoid: high maintenance people with too much drama. Having sex should be fun and I've got no interest in working through all your emotional bullshit.

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Gray is great.

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