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TOPIC: swinging and marriage
Created by: dfwcpl4fun
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so honestly i feel swinging has hurt our marriage it was good at first it was real good then sex at home slacked off and it was like swinging wasn't as good anymore..why did i want another man to have what i wasn't getting....if anyone else has had this problem please let me know.. thanks

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I agree with most everyone else. Communication is key, and when you star hitting bumps in the road its even more important.

Take some time to reinvest in each other. Sex is never as important to me as our friendship and commitment to one another. What you'll find is that when the relationship is strong, the sex bewteen the two of you ( or whoever else ) is great... But if the relationship is suffering sex in general suffers as well.

So yeah, take a break and re-kindle that marrital spark. Gotta keep priorities in check.

Tracy CA
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Yeah, definately chat and make sure both are up for it. We make sure we talk alot about what happens each time and if each of us is OK with it. So far this has improved our sex life and we are having sex more often than before. Maybe spice up life at home...public sex is always good for that...the beach...our favorite - the atacks at the library.

Catonsville MD
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so honestly i feel swinging has hurt our marriage it was good at first it was real good then sex at home slacked off and it was like swinging wasn't as good anymore..why did i want another man to have what i wasn't getting....if anyone else has had this problem please let me know.. thanks

Cleburne TX
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TOPIC: swinging and marriage