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TOPIC: stage fright
Created by: Hotwifetoo
Original Starting post for this thread:
Guys, if you have had performance issues when playing with couples, or in a club scene, have you found a way to overcome it for good? Or is it a problem always? Can it be fixed?

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be sure you don't have any meds that could be causing you a problem. if i have taken any kind of prescribed painkiller, it is virtually impossible for me to cum. hard on is there, can fuck for hours, but no cum. next morning, meds have worn off, look out.

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Recently my issue has been with not being able to finish. Boner was fine. I was in a group room situation with my wife and another woman giving me oral, together and separately. No condom. Couldn't cum to save my life. The second was in a foursome. The boner was great. She came twice. My wife and the other guy finished strong. I couldn't cum. Don't know what's going on.

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I would say its a good legitimate question that men have an issue with more often than I realized. I dealt with the stage fright 3 times in a row which was embarrassing but luckily the girls were very understanding with me and they knew it worked just fine solo, was just something about another guy next to me especially if he had a bit more to offer. We ended up taking a couple to the beach for our anniversary which I failed with 2 of those 3 times, we decided to try the same room again but separate beds. I dont know if I finally got comfortable being around another guy or just the extra space helped or a combination. I do know since that first time of success I got more confident and less insecure and embarrassed. I would say you just need to find that comfort zone in the beginning when you are trying to get used to things. I have heard some people will only play solo or separate rooms because of performance issues.

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Yeah waiting on the next topic to pop up. LOL now that ghost is AWOL I need some lively entertainment here.


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LOL. right about now i'd say that depends on who you ask.

i have to admit, i had to get a look at the profile of one who would choose that name for a swinging site. there was basically nothing there. seems pretty obvious it was just someone having a little fun. but he does have the paid membership, so i'd say the fun may not be over just yet.

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Yeah but you are different. :)


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he wouldn't be the first to pay for a membership just to hang around and be a jackass. some would probably say I paid for a lifetime membership to do it. :)

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I have a little trouble believing that was a serious post. He was a paid member so I dunno.


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Don't worry I'm sure some woman with a motherly complex will take him on, coddle him and when he does get a boner, will feel special and obligated. Women never get played by a supposed charity case, right?

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and then, like a wisp of smoke, he was gone.

lookyloo.

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TOPIC: stage fright