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Somewhat of a liberal here. But, I'll keep my measurement. I'm not giving it up to help anyone elses average! lol

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"We could take the socialist approach, measure everyone's cock, add them up, divide by total number of cocks measured, take that average and assign everyone that cock length. Then everyone would be the same size! Hey, I AM being serious!! :-)"

Or, we could take the neo-conservative way and upon discovering that we have the smallest penises in the room we declare "small penises GOOD big penis BAD" and proceed to minimize, ridicule and/or denigrate anyone that disagrees...

(looking back in the thread at the posts)

.... hmmm, not too many liberals here, you're right.

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---vabeachcouple: "I watch my wife with other guys and am surprised to see that I am bigger than almost all of these guys claiming to be 8 inches or more when I am not."------- Well, it has been said that, "figures don't lie, liers figure."

Maybe their measuring tape is in centimeters and they think it's in inches. ;-)

Or, maybe it's just plain old wishful thinking.

We need to develop an SLS standard for measuring cock! Do we measure conservatively, along the top, from tip to base or more liberally, along the underside, from tip to balls? Or do we use a more progressive liberal approach and measure from butthole to tip? Decisions, decisions!

We could take the socialist approach, measure everyone's cock, add them up, divide by total number of cocks measured, take that average and assign everyone that cock length. Then everyone would be the same size! Hey, I AM being serious!! :-)

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Have you ever noticed in porn that guys with large(8+) are seldom able to give the woman a good hard fuck? It simply hurts when the dick is too big. And sometimes if the lady is petite and tight, it just doesn't comfortably fit. Just be happy with the size of your cock. And it will be happy with you!

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One thing I noticed soon after being in the lifestyle is that most men outright lie about their dick sizes. I watch my wife with other guys and am surprised to see that I am bigger than almost all of these guys claiming to be 8 inches or more when I am not.

Just under 6 inches is pretty much bang on average (pardon the pun).

As for being 6'1 255 - there is something out there for everyone. You're probably not going to get a lot of interest from the beach body types (well, ok neither do I) but there are way bigger people out there who get plenty. It'll also depend on how you carry it. Pics on your profile leave less to the imagination - with no pics they can't tell if you're a big beefy guy or what.

Just like with women - actually even more than with women - confidence goes a long way. Be confident and project that (not arrogant) and you'll probably do just fine.

If you're like most of us, this whole thing will probably motivate you to drop a little weight. It's a win-win. But even as you are, how you behave goes a long way.

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400, at the risk of sounding like a pop psychologist, you will "make it" if YOU decide to. I lost wweight from 315 to 210 and recently gained 20 pounds back. I am the stereotypically average 6 inches. While I am certainly no male model, I am not a bit ashamed of my body when I am at the local swing club and more importantly my wife has always been proud of how I looked (even when I don't see how!) and has alwas been happy with my "equipment". Bluntly, relax. Enjoy. Have fun! Be comfortable with yourself, and while everyone has their own personal preferences for looks and who they want to play with, if anyone is not accepting of who you are and how you look MOVE ON FROM THEM.

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Here's another vote to say that Lost is absolutely right. While some women want a larger cock to pleasure them, there are many of us who are quite satisfied with an average size. The hoopla out there that ALL women want an enormous member banging away endlessly is just a myth promoted by the porn industry.

Seriously, don't worry about it!

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It is enough to keep your wife excited, no? The falacy of every woman requires a cockaconda is just that...a myth. Actually, anything over 8 to me is called holy fuck that hurts. And...when men are extremely endowed the number of positions you can do is limited due to the fact that....refer back to holy fuck that hurts. There ARE some ladies who are here for well enowed gentlemen, because that is their fantasy...and that is their right to want that. Do not be intimidated by others or you will end up with performance anxiety issues. You seem to have the average size penis for the American male, so dont worry about the rest. Just have fun.


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im 6'1" 250 lbs. will i make it in the " lifestyle " with a penis just shy of 6" would bigger guys make me feel like an idiot or would they be good about it? we are new to this and are getting really excited. thanks.

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