so she's gonna see how this guy at her work that flirts with her and shes attracted to works out." Nice story...however, I would strongly advise AGAINST mixing sex and work. If she is at a job where if she is fired or quits its all good...well, okay. If this is her career however I would NOT embark on this. I do NOT mix sex and work. There is a guy at my office in the marketing dept. who was dating a girl in my dept. They got into a fight, broke up...and she literally told EVERYONE. And I do mean EVERYONE that would listen that he is not well endowed. Is it true? Probably not, she was just being a mean bitch. She is now gone but he knows that every time he walks through the office the girls are giggling behind his back. I would advise strongly against this, no matter how hot it sounds. JMO.

that's a hot story. not something we'd do but hot none the less. the first girl we full swapped with in a 3some her husband loved her being a bad girl and let us fuck her while he watched on webcam. he often encourages her to fuck other men and tell him about it.

on a different note we've given you guys access to our private pics, hopefully you'll open yours for us aswell.

Glad you guys worked out your experience in a fun way, and with her looking for more! We find even with couple on couple swinging we learn from each experience and adjust accordingly, all in the pursuit of superior pleasure for all involved. Kudos!

Yep. Husbands are handy when they are fun!

well it happened, but differently. i did go to the bar with her, and sat apart from her, someone ended up hitting on her and everything was good to go, but he didnt have a car, and she was too drunk to drive, so her "friend" (me) was nice enough to drive them into a parking lot and let them fuck in my car, and i went to a 24 hr around the corner and had a bite to eat. it was VERY erotic, smelling their sex when i got back into the car, and as he thought i was just a friend, he kept on playin in the backseat while i drove him home. eating her out and playing with her tits, she even sucked his dick all so i could see in the rear view. she wasnt too comfortable with a stranger, and figured it would be easier with someone she knows. so she's gonna see how this guy at her work that flirts with her and shes attracted to works out.

I say raynelynn's thoughts were really good. Just off the top of my head your fantasy sounds like a man's fantasy offered up to a woman. While the thrill potential is super, she gives up all the protection to do that -- for you or for her? You two know better than anybody and these are just thoughts, so who knows what is best? Our experience is that more than half of the new prospects are a disappointment -- single guys and guys out for a nite seem to be on the ascending side of the learning curve. Of course they tend to do their best without supervision. Also, everything costs something, and we have come to not be eager to incur costs without significant promise of proportional benefits. Closest I have come to that is being a fly on the wall for events specifically tailored to allow one on one freedom. We could do it insofar as our personal ability to enjoy and security. The hidden creep factor is real, though and one of the best things about swinging is as far as a girls' protection, with a mate it is two heads against one. I can smell a creep in a flash, my wife takes a click or two longer to raise the flag. I think a lot of women are like that. I don't like bad stuff to happen to mine because it is my job to make sure she feels protected and as wide open as possible. If it was me I would select from one of the lesser risky options to do the same thing.

It's pretty hot either way, and if you can make that fantasy a reality for you and her, then more power to you. The idea of laying out a sexy outfit for her to wear, etc., is very Dom/sub and goes right along with what you're saying, in that YOU get turned on by the thought of it, and don't feel the need to reverse it. Good luck, and we hope you'll "report" back with the details. My husband also has done this, where he was actually AT the bar where his girlfriend at the time played along and was getting another male to take her home. He loved being the "anonymous" male at the bar watching it all go down, as it was a turn on for him. Just that scene can also be quite hot if she isn't ready to take it all the way yet. We also have friends where the wife has sex, comes home and doesn't say a word, yet afterwards they have intense sex with each other. Doesn't happen often, and it's usually her doing. so, there's something for everyone in this scenario, and you have to really know your partner well to know that the results will work for all parties. Have fun, Gina

Have you considered that she may not find who she is looking for in just one night on the town? It may actually add to the pressure, or make her feel even more insecure if she strikes out. If you're turned on and ready when she gets home, and she only feels disappointed, how will that affect things? I think its wonderful that you want your wife to explore her desires, but this may not be a good construct. I would advise letting her find a playmate in her own time frame, and let her know that she can set up a playdate if and when she is ready. I know that I'm very picky, to the point where even at a classy bar packed to the gills there may be no prospects. Even if there are some, getting a guy in the sack is not always as easy as some on here make it out to be. I have been turned down TONS of times, by guys that were obviously into me, for many reasons...many men are just not used to being propositioned by a woman for casual sex. A "good" prospect may not even respond to an offer for a one-night stand, as many people like to meet up in a public place and then schedule sex for another night, even singles not in the swinging world. What if she feels nervous and drinks a little too much? She could end up doing something she might never have done if not for the pressure to take advantage of this one opportunity. Also, borrowing some guy's cell phone sounds like a poor choice of safety measure. She needs her own, and maybe even a girlfriend to tag along with as an extra pair of eyes if you still decide to "send her out" as you so eloquently put it.

I have a very fulfilling and satisfying swing life. A few of my friends are couples with whom I play both with 3ways and with her separately. Part of their attraction to me is his desire to have her act as a slut with me. However, it didn't just happen overnight. Husband had the fantasy and wife wasn't quite sure. We started with a 3way, and wife had to become to understand that her husband really did want to see her fuck another man. Then, she had to relax and enjoy having sex with another man. The trust grows, and now I am welcome to come fuck wife in their home when husband is not there. Frankly, he prefers hearing about it afterwards from her over being their himself. So, my recommendation is to go slow with your wife. You will eventually reach the point where the confidence and trust exists so that you both are having a great time.

now this is a pretty good fantasy of mine, and after a good solid 6 months of debating over it in my head, ive decided that im not only ready, but super turned on. im not sure what it is exactly tho, the idea of her getting to go out and be a slut, fuck anyway she wants without worrying about me watching and getting uncomfortable, holding back for that fear. just open free wild anyway-she-wants-it type sex. im getting this super mini black dress ready for her to wear when she leaves, shes gonna go to the bar do her thing, call me before she leaves the bar to let me know shes going somewhere else (shes gonna borrow the guys phone to tell her boyfriend she'll be home in a couple hours) fuck this guy (or possibly couple of guys, guy and a girl, really its all up to her) then come home without saying a word, get on my dick and fuck me silly. or maybe its me wanting her to have the ability to be as open as she pleases, so she doesnt have this regretful feeling of "missing her slutty 20's" we've been together since we were underclassmen in high school, 8 years later we've done a bit of swinging, but in my opinion its not the same. now to any of you who are gonna try and say im just doing this to give myself a free pass, thats not how it is at all. when i brought this up to her, she offered back to me and i honestly turned it down. for a couple reasons. one, i dont really have the urge to go fuck other women, even in threesomes i tend to direct the attention of me and the other girl to my girlfriend, as opposed to them to me. and 2, i dont think the opposite scenario would do what it does for me, to her. she has a bit more of the "girly side" of her emotions that hold her back from some things, like if i find a girl TOO hot, she tends to get a bit insecure. it passes and i know shes more subconciously thinking about it then something thats dwelling on her mind all the time. she enjoys ffm threesomes we have, her squirting and constant fantasy about it tells me, she just needs a very light touch. so i dunno, i WOULD do it, but only if her outlook on it changes up a bit. i guess my post has a question to it, and thats if there are any other guys out there that have fantasies about this, or act/have acted it out before, and to those guys, how long into your relationship (and into your life) was it before you were capable of doing something like this without insecurities, and a side question open to anyone, do you think theres any particular reason to attribute to my new found (and i would say pretty wild) fantasy?