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User Details are only visible to members.	Having started out here as a couple and having been a little squeamish with other guys early on, I can relate. My recommendation is to be open and let her know your interests. NEVER push her into something she's not comfortable with. Continue to meet people that interest her. Hopefully, during one of your meetings you'll notice she reacts differently with a certain guy. Ask if she would have any interest in going farther, but don't get pushy. Keep it to an inquisitive or supportive discussion.
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User Details are only visible to members.	We suspect that a sizeable percentage of the "women" who are responding to many of these forum topics are really men. This is, after all, the internet, "where all the men are men and half the women are too."
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (544 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	do you mean the women in these responses are not genuine? ...just wondering
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	it would be interesting to see the responses to this post if it were in the Women's forum -- and the responses were all genuine women.
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (544 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL I just spotted this thread~~OP try fucking her mother and sisters, and then show her pictures, that should do it. that would not have worked for us ...... she has fantasies about me being with her mother and her sister........ while she films it. This is one we discuss alot while having sex to the point we role play it. our first MMF (her fantasy, mine is helping her get what she wants) .......... she was drunk and while she was for it at the time, did not remember it the next day. The second one I invited this guy with similar interests over and suggested we all get nekked and get in the hot tub..... that did it.... no pressure and it got her over her insecurities..... o fcourse it helped that it was one of her fantasies.
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User Details are only visible to members.	well, after being into the lifestyle so long, we have decided that the wife will swing only if shes comfy with the guy, if shes interested in him, then she dont have to be promped, lol, just let her at it,
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User Details are only visible to members.	LOL I just spotted this thread~~OP try fucking her mother and sisters, and then show her pictures, that should do it.
Sanford NC			Username hidden (18796 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OMG... i hope it doesnt take us another 7 years from decision to actually swing! lmao! ...altho my husband does say 'we'll prob be swingers that never actually swung'! lol (i know i know, we're not really calling ourselves swingers yet) ... and ...i'm sure i'll always be pickier than he, but there's definitly more at stake for me for our first time. if it's bad, i'm gonna get too turned off to the whole concept... and may have to take up knitting or something instead... and that won't be good, ...not good at all... :( lol... to the OP: DO YOU guys communicate openly about this?????? i just got confused... if you have soft swapped, she's already played to some degree with another male, DID SHE LIKE IT??? if not, why? ...personally i am preferring females more than males, but if we met a couple and i felt extra 'comfortable' with the male. i'd prob be able to do anything... lol yet a MMF is not on my radar at all right now, and if its on my hubbys, its sort of too bad for him...
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User Details are only visible to members.	Hayjester, let's hope it doesn't take 7 more years to bridge the gap from Michigan to Ohio! ;-D
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User Details are only visible to members.	Kinddragon is right, slowly introduce your fantasies during your play time and see if it excites her or turns her off. Never insist but let's face it, some women (and men) want and need to be gently nudged into pushing boundaries. The next time it's just the two of you, tell her how hot it is to watch her perform oral on a guy while you are inside her. (Since you said she does soft, I assume she has done this?) Then switch and slide your cock in her mouth and ask her if she would like another guy inside her while she sucks you. If that turns her on, then you can role play that fantasy a few times and then ask if she would like to make it a reality. I'm a big fan of pillow talk to open up the lines of communication. sometimes she may want to do more and is afraid to bring it up. The best time to hear what she really wants is when she is already turned on.
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