Personally I think I would move one and find someone else. They maybe safe they may not be as others have posted 3 to 6 monts for AIDS to turn up in a blood test. So, like dogs just cause they got the papers don't mean they are gonna win the show, bad analogy but it is all I could come up with on short notice...lol.

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G I agree with you on that. Same with swingers, my vanilla friends think all we do is screw lol.

Safe sex is a must!! You just don't know where these parteners have been. Plus there are things that don't even show up on tests. Always better safe than sorry!

I find it again a double standard that people think just because you're a single guy, you'll fuck anything, and that you're desperate to fuck, and you'll just go ahead with anything that's laid on the table (so to speak!).

Keep to your guns, honey! Most people DO want to remain healthy and as safe as possible. If your preferences and boundaries are for condoms, then do not compromise and do not "let" anyone make you feel odd for your wishes.

Gina

isn't common in this house hold. i'm the only one that get sex with my wife w/o a condom. and in swingi setting i use a condom with her (courtsey to other people).

honestly most people are safe sex couples. and if they aren't we simply won't play with them.

JECaine-

If anyone in the Lifestyle is not comfortable with something, then they should not do it. Others should not criticize you for exercising this fundamental right.

I never fuck bareback on the first date (or second or third for that matter). If a new swing friend becomes a steady playmate, and we are both comfortable with it, then we fuck bareback.

Yes, there is a bareback culture out there that does not use condoms at all. I try to avoid these groups.