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Created by: shesmooth Original Starting post for this thread:
we are NOT experts on the lifestyle. we have been in it for a few years and have learned a few things along they way. there seem to be a number of reasons why guys have a difficult time performing when playtime comes. we thought we would mention a couple of things for guys who are having problems to keep in mind. condoms. most married guys do not use condoms with their own partner. if you are playing with a "condoms only" couple, you need to be practicing at home. a partner or fuck buddy can help you with this. if the only time you are using a condom is for lifestyle play, you are much more likely to have problems with them. and yes, they can be hard on killers until you get comfortable with them. viagra, cialis, and levitra. stop letting your ego ruin your fun. these pills are not just for old farts who can't get a hardon anymore. in the course of an evening there are any number of things that can cause you to lose your focus. for most of us guys, when we lose focus, we lose hardon. let me assure you, your partner for the evening couldn't care less about the pill. what she cares about is you bringing a good hard cock to playtime. these medications are designed to help you overcome a loss of focus and stay in the game. get comfortable with condoms. get a prescription if you need it. there are no guarantees with either of these because as i said earlier, there are numerous reasons for E.D., but if you're really struggling, then the key is to start somewhere. from our experience, these two are a good place to start.

Created by: shesmooth
Original Starting post for this thread:

we are NOT experts on the lifestyle.  we have been in it for a few years and have learned a few things along they way.  there seem to be a number of reasons why guys have a difficult time performing when playtime comes.  

we thought we would mention a couple of things for guys who are having problems to keep in mind.

condoms.  most married guys do not use condoms with their own partner.  if you are playing with a "condoms only" couple, you need to be practicing at home.  a partner or fuck buddy can help you with this.  if the only time you are using  a condom is for lifestyle play, you are much more likely to have problems with them.  and yes, they can be hard on killers until you get comfortable with them.

viagra, cialis, and levitra.  stop letting your ego ruin your fun.  these pills are not just for old farts who can't get a hardon anymore.  in the course of an evening there are any number of things that can cause you to lose your focus.  for most of us guys, when we lose focus, we lose hardon.  let me assure you, your partner for the evening couldn't care less about the pill.  what she cares about is you bringing a good hard cock to playtime.  these medications are designed to help you overcome a loss of focus and stay in the game.  

get comfortable with condoms.  get a prescription if you need it.  there are no guarantees with either of these because as i said earlier, there are numerous reasons for E.D., but if you're really struggling, then the key is to start somewhere.  from our experience, these two are a good place to start.

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User Details are only visible to members.	FUN, since I just answered your question, or should I say "curiosity", I see no reason to answer it again.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I never point out outrage, anger, etal except as it relates to most of your posts. I see hardly anyone here who is like that. In fact, I don't see any regulars here who post like that, beside you. Have a great day!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Smooth, I didn't question where or why or when you post; I just wondered why you seem obsessed with this topic. My curiosity about your obsession stemmed from a very different exchange than the one you recall. I'll try to find it when I have some time, but from memory it was started by a college kid who just asked for insight about why he wasn't getting much response to his profile. Several posters encouraged him, said he had a nice profile they would be interested in if he were closer, and offered constructive suggestions. There was NOTHING about his package, until you jumped in and made it ALL about cock size. You basically said he should quit if his profile didn't brag about having a huge dick. You're welcome to bring it up all you want. I was only curious why, but I will survive without knowing.
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User Details are only visible to members.	No, that applies just to you.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12277 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	what's funny is how you love to say that anyone who disagree's with you is "outraged" angry, ranting, out of control. LOL enjoy your morning people. :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Dobraya Utra!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Got it!
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	* When did "size queen" become derogatory? * Around the same time as pillow princess became a problem. I think you were on vacation at the time ;).
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12277 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I oppose any threads being deleted. When did "size queen" become derogatory? Nice try at making a non-issue an issue. Your wife never comes here. Period. When you post that a small dick gives her a "bad taste in her mouth" ( I assume you mean it rhetorically) one should be free to respond to that post on topic. I did. You implied your wife dislikes small dicks. I merely asked you how YOU felt living with a woman who doesn't like small dicks (i.e. a size queen). Your feigned outrage is funny.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Akron, you can attempt to paint whatever picture you choose to paint. but the fact is anyone can scroll back thru the thread and see that you chose to attack my wife, someone who rarely ever has any involvement in these forums, by calling her a "size queen". you seem to love to get under certain people's skin, but when you get a little of your own medicine back, you want to get ugly and go after a spouse. why some still find you "cute" or "amusing" in light of this behavior is a mystery to many here. and as far as what others have noticed, a little scroll through the other threads here will show that i am not the only one looking to help people get the assisstance they need to enjoy the lifestyle. as a "moderate" couple, i can see why you might not care about this issue. you've come here to create fights, and attack spouses, in the hopes of getting the thread deleted in an attempt to somehow get back at me. have fun.
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