Sometimes - it depends a lot on how much stress I'm under, how much sleep I've had, and how I've been able to not masturbate. :-)

Jay
You are right! Just hearing alot of it maks me feel less of a man than i guess i should feel. I hate to admit it but after blast off i am pretty much shout to shit for a while. i have a great wife and she call it the single shot rifle

I stay hard after sex, But I see it as a good thing. I can go back at it and have more fun. If I go right back in then I can not cum. If I wait 5 minutes then I will again. It depends on the situation I am in.

I have heard many things about being talented out here. And or read about these amazing cocks out here on Forums that can vacuum floors. I even heard about taking smoke breaks and never finishing. Some post out here even talk about going time after time and again after again. The others that claim such things then claim to be sore is beyond comprehension. Just that when people claim such things then first hand you find out the truth.. Like people if you know you smell like B.O. and a shower is available then please use it. Another thing I hear from people out here is about condoms slipping off. If this happens I suggest going to a smaller sized one. Well to the fact of many people out here claiming to be able to remain hard is just with their own spouse. I have found that when most claim they can remain hard or get it up in a second time within minutes is mostly with their own spouse and not others. So when I read or hear about others claiming this I am hesitant to believe it. In this Lifestyle sex between you and your spouse may at times be totally different in swinging. So I would suggest to others that claiming to do this with your spouse and not others are two different aspects. Like the HWP claim, what is HWP to you may not be to me. So claiming that your spouse or yourself has great sex is just a given because they are your spouse and you should know each other's bodies very well. Just that when claiming this and that in the swinging aspect to others. Some day you may meet up and would have to back up all your talking. So choose your claims very wisely..this is just our experience in swinging. Just me, Jay

didn't realize it was an oddity"

LOL yes, it can be an oddity. I don't think its odd per se, but as men get older they simply do not recharge as quickly as the younger men do. Thus why I like the 23 year old boy toy haha. Now those young things are something ELSE, I love being a cougar!

Jay can be multi orgasmic when we are particularly horned up...however it is more common honestly for him to last longer and cum once or twice usually at the most. We will fuck usually for about an hour-ish (is that even a word, hour-ish lol) before he cums. If we had a really hot experience he is quick to the recharge. I like men that are able to last longer periods of time before cumming because then you wait for recharge vs. pure out fucking.

There was a time when I was taking Paxil for panic attacks. The paxil had many side effects that I liked. One was that I'd stay hard after ejaculating many times. It was almost like I was multi-orgasmic. That was cool. The only thing I found annoying was that sometimes it would take forever to reach climax and other times I just didn't reach it at all. But the times that I kept going after ejaculating with orgasms after orgasms, that was awesome. I'm off the Paxil now (that was about 8 years ago).

Yes but not always. Sometimes we go one for several orgasms but more often than not it is limited to one or two (for the male). I suppose a factor of alcohol consumption, amount of rest taken beforehand, excitement level, diet, and how in shape we are at the time are the primary factors.

Yes, I'm fully capable but generally I'm pretty spent (I tend to go a very long time before orgasm, and it takes a lot out of me).

We have found i stay hard after cumming for 5-10mins with no stimulus, if i am instead of lady after coming and we move slow,i get harder and can go longer time. Most of my playmates enjoy me.
and no lil blue pill, would like to try one someday just to see what it does.