get the adjustable. the come in leather with different snaps. i had a similar experience with the ones that came with the vibrator. sounds like u and i are "bigger than average". not a bad thing :-)

I wanted to try one back in college- I'm on the thick side, so what I found worked for me was a metal ring sold at a leather-craft shop (in this case Tandy Leather). And since it was sold outside the adult industry, I probably paid a LOT less too.

I picked a couple up that fit me. I am not super thick but I am decently thick. I like the ones I got cause they stretch and have elasticity so that I can take them on and off pretty easy. (one is black and the other clear)

it does feel a bit tight when I am fully engorged but that isnt a problem to me cause I always assumed that is what it is suppose to feel like. It does prolong me from cumming (sometimes a bit to long for the wifes liking) but when I do, I swear my eyes roll in the back of my head.

A good friend if mine (a regular member of the Mid-South Gang Bang Club) wears his cock ring while flaccid, because, frankly, it looks good on him.

I think some men wear them as jewelry actually. Honestly there are some that are very pretty. As far as there being a sign of something I have no idea. Hopefully not because I missed it if there is lol.

We went to a local nude beach the other day and noticed several men wearing cockrings. There were a few single guys and a few guys there with woman who were also wearing them. I understand there intended purpose when erect but these guys were wearing them for house while flaccid. Is there a reason or are they supposed to represent something?