As a matter of fact, Frank, my primary care physician who gave me the physical this morning really is female!!! And she gave my balls a good feeling up too to check for tumors.

Jim

Jm turns to the Dr. eyes glased over and whispers....Doc please use 2 fingers so I can get a second opiniion.

Frank....Female Dr Jim?????????

I had my annual physical exam this morning and I had more prostate massage than I ever wanted!!! LOL

Jim

I was very interested in prostate massage. I found a partner who although is not bi curious at all, and actually wasnt much into the anal play idea, thru the years we built on my curiousity and his openness to new things and I found that I REALLY LOVE to give men multipule internal orgasms thru prostate massage. I love the fact that he can have multipule orgasms much like I experience and then when he does cum.. ohh its so intense. Going to shower! Swt.

That area under your testicles and above your ass is called the perinium (sp) and yes, it's sensitive...different for different men, much the same way nipple play is different for different women. To each his own, but I think the key to any ass play is how comfortable you are with it, with your partner, open to communication about it (no, it isn't cool to just ram anything in anyone's ass...male or female, fingers, toys, etc). A good way to start out with anal beads is to try the kind that are plastic and attached to one piece, rather than a string of beads (something about that string idea, just doens't sound good to me...what if it breaks?), and easy to clean. G.

Ken here, for me anal stimulation all by itself is not that great but combine it with a Blow Job and its "All Systems Go........LAUNCH!"

Dude don't trip. I just discovered that too! I figure, whatever your girl does to you is okay. Cuz your girl is servicing you. Get it? It's a different story if she breaks out the fake dicks and shit.

Sassy, don't feel bad at all girl that Spicey isn't ready. Jay and I were married probably 14 years or so before we started that...men are just so trained in this country that the anus means "gay" that its hard for them to allow it or admit that they like that sort of thing. NOT saying that all men are homophobic, don't get me wrong........I am not partial to anal either, so there are lots of men who like me just don't like something shoved in their butt! LOL But I have talked with ladies and its rare to find a man that tried it and didn't like it. We haven't tried anal beads, but I'd like to...my concern is how do you keep them clean and sanitary? We will probably end up trying them eventually though. Now this is ONLY something that Jay and I share together. We would never ask another woman to do this, and Jay would not feel comfortable with another woman doing it........this is about complete trust when it comes to men I think. So just be patient. Heck, he may never warm up to it at all. However, and I think some women make this mistake like men...its not about shoving a finger up someone's ass lol. Its about rubbing and carressing and massaging the prostate. I wouldn't want a finger rammed up my butt and neither do men I suppose. Shelly

I'd post something butt I'd make an ass outta myself =)

wow frank...I so wanna try that. But spicey isn't ready for penetration pfffft

sass