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TOPIC: Why is it that so many men in the LS have issues performing
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Hah. I totally missed that you we're the originator of this thread C.

My comments were not aimed at you as you are quite "interactive".

In fact, it was more of a memory of my first MFM: three plays in, dehydrated, and late as hell. Her plan to strip and just lay there made it alot more work and alot less fun.

-M

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I think experience is more of a factor than age.

We tend to end up meeting "first timers" and thats after a night of them building up that they are gods gift to sex and theyre going to rock my wife like shes never seen before, and how they can go for hours.....yada yada

Then the time comes and theyre shy, cant keep it up, get weird cause im watching, and just turns into an awkward time until after trying everything, the game is over.

Guys who we are not their first couple and they know they like the little group activity dont seem to have that problem

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<------------------Going to make popcorn....Brb

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We've encountered that quite a few times. We find that mostly with first timers.

They talk like theyre porn stars online and set themselves up talking a big game, but when the clothes come off, its a different situation.

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If a ladies idea of foreplay is stripping as fast as possible and laying on her back the entire time, she'll get exactly what she deserves: nothing but a limp dick.

-M

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a savvy customer, that Paula...

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Swinging is very different from having sex with someone you are dating, or even from someone you picked up at a bar or party. In swinging, you are sometimes confronted with having sex with someone you barely met. This means the usual time of flirting and seduction are often skipped. This can be tough even for a woman, but for a man who has to get an erection, it can kill the possibility.

Two pieces of advice for women who are thinking of playing with a new man:

1) Don't skip the flirtation stage. Take time to get to know each other and touch each other (slow dancing is great) to get each other in the mood BEFORE any clothes come off.

2) Don't take too much time on the preliminaries once you are both naked together. As soon as you get him hard, GET ON!!!!! If a man is hard when he enters you, he will get even harder once he's in you.

Jim (relating the tricks of his wily wife Paula)

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Insecurity and fear of not fulilling the partners needs.

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