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User Details are only visible to members.	I apologize, easy wasn't the right word to use. I didn't mean to imply anything. I just meant that I like having to work for it a bit. I understand that this isn't a dating site so to speak and usually it's pretty much a sure thing, but there is also an amount of class that can or can not come with it. I understand a lot of people here call themselves sluts and enjoy that, and I respect that, to each his own, the same as I would hope you would respect that to me that's a turn off. If I was single and at a regular party or the bar and had some girl throwing herself at me, I wouldn't do her. My point is even if it is a sure thing, you can still make the guy work for it. Having game and being able to at least feel like the girl wants to fuck you for reasons besides so it's fair is a turn on. But hey I'm just a guy do wtf do I know.
Grand Blanc MI			Username hidden (143 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	.." In my experience, a lot of women who have extensive LS experience get so jaded that they dispense completely with seduction. I've had a lot of women whom I used to enjoy change from attractive to not. The reason was that as soon as you get to the bedroom they hurriedly strip naked and flop down on the bed. And just lie there. As if to say "do me." Veteran swinger men are not turned on by seeing a woman naked. What turns them on is the playful, flirtatious interaction that proceeds sex. If you are one of those women who think being there naked is all you have to do, think again. Especially if you find limp dicks happening a lot, you might take a hint...." ^^ This. Agreed VA, thats what separates the average playmates from the exceptional playmates...
Emeryville CA			Username hidden (12137 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I love confidence but detest arrogance. A person who continually brags just makes me roll my eyes whether there is anything factual in their comment I will never know as they will have no chance to prove it. Experience has proven to me again and again that those that brag the most offer the least.....men and women ! Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4071 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	. Well, lots of guys talk it up, brag, etc. But when it comes down to it, does that confidence extend to below the belt?" The same can be said about WIVES who brag about their husbands. had one just recently, My wife was talking to her on the phone, and all she could talk about was how good and hung he was and how much she was going to like her man. Needless to say we never called them back.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2191 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A lot of factors can be involved. Heck we played with a couple recently, and when his pecker came out I thought it was going to hit the ceiling fan. Then his wife came over to me and I thought....."Oh great. Im sure she'll be impressed opening this package" lol
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"We try try to live up to the porn industry standards of sex." The same can be said of women. Are our breasts big enough, is my ass tight enough, do I have cellulite ,do I look as good as his favorite porn star? Does he expect me to behave like one? Does he expect me to cum when he drops his pants around his ankles, puts his hands behind his back while staring at the ceiling with in cock in my mouth and get mad when it just isn't going to happen? How come I can't have sex in outrageous positions while balanced on one foot in a 6 inch stiletto????? Can I compete with his own hand, after all they've been together since birth ;) Just some food for thought lol. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4071 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think all men have had issues performing. We try try to live up to the porn industry standards of sex. Is our penis big enough, will I be able to last more than 3 miniutes, will I give her an orgasm? Alot of preasure we have to endure. When the lady's biggest issue is will she get wet. If she don't, there's lube for that.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sexy, and I know it......
Douglassville PA			Username hidden (28 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with RDY and I too would find that behavior repulsive. I am more than just a warm body. That being said be careful with " Especially if you find limp dicks happening a lot, you might take a hint." Many men have a problem far beyond their immediate power and although I am there to please you as well as myself your hard on is primarily YOUR ISSUE and perhaps one would suggest before you consider taking a women to bed just because you can you might want to be sure she actually turns you on and you are fully capable of getting an erection with her, medically and physiologically . Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4071 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Back to the original question. In my experience, a lot of women who have extensive LS experience get so jaded that they dispense completely with seduction. I've had a lot of women whom I used to enjoy change from attractive to not. The reason was that as soon as you get to the bedroom they hurriedly strip naked and flop down on the bed. And just lie there. As if to say "do me." Veteran swinger men are not turned on by seeing a woman naked. What turns them on is the playful, flirtatious interaction that proceeds sex. If you are one of those women who think being there naked is all you have to do, think again. Especially if you find limp dicks happening a lot, you might take a hint. I'm in my mid-60s now, and whether I have a performance issue or not seems to depend totally on whether the woman I'm with is seductive or "just there." Jim
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