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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm glad I found this thread. She and I are new to the LS and are loving it. I get get soooo turned on watching her and when it is just her and I having sex together everything on me works fine and we are both very satisfied. Again since we are new to the LS, we have only played with two other couples and both times I could not get erect and stay that way when I was playing with the other woman. We were all having fun and before we began playing with the other couple I was erect and ready to go and even will me and the other guys wife was fondling each other. But when it was time to the little guy to perform, he was a no show. I still made sure I helped her get off. It's not her fault I was soft. I am not sure why this is happening. Maybe it is a mental thing and I just need to keep at it. I think we are meeting with the couple again next Saturday. I do have a Viagra and I think I'm going to take it before we meet.
Forney TX			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Age IS a factor, Health issus IS a factor, Improper diet IS a factor. including a few others. If the issues cime from preventable reasons like health and nutrition then change it! Simple. If it is something that can't be changed then at least use the things below the cock and tell upfront that no matter what you do, Mr. Winkey isn't going to wake up. I worked on a guy for what seemed to be hours before he said that he had his prostrate removed. OK, so chances are there isn't going to be hard on. So tell me upfront that there may be a problem, so I can make a choice. I would take hours of play and fun and laughing over a hard cock. We went to a party with another couple that was tryng to be with us for weeks. We started playing and he went naked to the bed, layed back and expected me to "DO Him". I lasted a minute and walked away. At least be an active participant, we are?
Manchester NJ			Username hidden (53 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lets see no foreplay,no flirting,does she really want me,what if I do something she don't like,is she doing it cause she want to,is she doing it for him, perform now or you will never get aother chance,is he really ok with this,I wish I could relax more,its late and I am tried,he hasn't smiled all night,she hasn't looked me in the eyes all night,she is one of the nicest woman I have ever been with,hardon don't fail me now,o no I'am thinking about it not getting hard,don't think about it don't think about it,drink a nutter bear to relax,no drink to much and you won't be able to perform,hope I don't cum to soon,what if I can't cum at all,does she cum easy,does it take a long time for her to cum,is my dick to small ,is it to big,is it to short,is it to long,well I just came it my pants,time to go home,bye, see you some other time,had a wonderful evening.and you think all this in five seconds after she says lets get nekkid.....issuses I don't have issuses....HA HA..and every person thinks this at one time or another.men and women.with men it shows.women can fake an orgasam,men can't fake a hardon..live form down town bull shit ville.this is BS sigining off.......BS
Kingston TN			Username hidden (1925 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This is a good thread, and I should stick to the subject. We were new to the lifestyle the time I had an issue. it seemed the sex was to personal. We were all in a small bedroom at a club. This is suppose to be fun sex, not love making. We like to be in an open room where you can have fun. Laugh will each other try little tricks you may have learned. We avoid going into small rooms to play now.
Douglassville PA			Username hidden (28 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If a man is still having Ed problems even with all the necessary stimuli, he needs to understand that it is his problem and needs to find out why it is happening. If it's happens, as some have said because the play partner you have chosen lacks the skill or desire to be stimulating, you need need to choose your play partners better. To you guys in you 30's who are having this problem, I urge you to see a doctor. To you guys who are in my age group, I can tell you that my erections are better now than they where 3yrs ago. Whats changed, I'm eating better, exercising more, and choosing my play partners better. Also and this is the big one. My wife has in the last 2yrs, gotten into to prostate massage and milking. Since then my erections have gotten firmer,last longer, recoup time is shorter, orgasms are stronger, and sperm production is larger.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2191 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	JustUs , I think your question was a good one and very worth discussing. Without opposing opinions questions can never be fully answered. I hope to see you post more frequently myself. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4074 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I am one of those guys who talks like I am a porn star, and when I am comfortable, I can back that up, but when I am with someone I hardly know, a lot of times it just won't work when it's game time. My apologies I assumed from your above post that you did indeed suffer this issue on occasion. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4074 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sav, I wasnt saying I personally have issues caused by that, I'm just saying that it could be one of the reasons guys have issues with it. The same as someone else just said too. If a girl doesn't make me work for it at least a little I don't play with them so I have already reconsidered who I play with.
Grand Blanc MI			Username hidden (143 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I understand that this isn't a dating site so to speak and usually it's pretty much a sure thing, but there is also an amount of class that can or can not come with it. " I am never a "sure" thing and do not ever "throw" myself at anyone , I am not the girl taking her clothes off at a public party or randomly giving blow jobs at the bar. I too insist on flirtation, charm and most definitely class , good manners and a whole lot of attraction . If you're having issues preforming with the partners you're picking and you see them as easy, classless whores who are a "sure" thing perhaps you might want to reconsider who you agree to play with. Just saying..... Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4074 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Rdy, i was replying to the post below mine. I'm not sexy and i know it. Just an average guy all around. I should stick to just reading post.
Douglassville PA			Username hidden (28 post)

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