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TOPIC: Why is it that so many men in the LS have issues performing
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A lot of factors can be involved.

Heck we played with a couple recently, and when his pecker came out I thought it was going to hit the ceiling fan.

Then his wife came over to me and I thought....."Oh great. Im sure she'll be impressed opening this package" lol

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"We try try to live up to the porn industry standards of sex."

The same can be said of women. Are our breasts big enough, is my ass tight enough, do I have cellulite ,do I look as good as his favorite porn star? Does he expect me to behave like one? Does he expect me to cum when he drops his pants around his ankles, puts his hands behind his back while staring at the ceiling with in cock in my mouth and get mad when it just isn't going to happen? How come I can't have sex in outrageous positions while balanced on one foot in a 6 inch stiletto????? Can I compete with his own hand, after all they've been together since birth ;) Just some food for thought lol.

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I think all men have had issues performing. We try try to live up to the porn industry standards of sex. Is our penis big enough, will I be able to last more than 3 miniutes, will I give her an orgasm? Alot of preasure we have to endure. When the lady's biggest issue is will she get wet. If she don't, there's lube for that.

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I'm sexy, and I know it......

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I agree with RDY and I too would find that behavior repulsive. I am more than just a warm body. That being said be careful with " Especially if you find limp dicks happening a lot, you might take a hint." Many men have a problem far beyond their immediate power and although I am there to please you as well as myself your hard on is primarily YOUR ISSUE and perhaps one would suggest before you consider taking a women to bed just because you can you might want to be sure she actually turns you on and you are fully capable of getting an erection with her, medically and physiologically .

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Back to the original question. In my experience, a lot of women who have extensive LS experience get so jaded that they dispense completely with seduction. I've had a lot of women whom I used to enjoy change from attractive to not. The reason was that as soon as you get to the bedroom they hurriedly strip naked and flop down on the bed. And just lie there. As if to say "do me."

Veteran swinger men are not turned on by seeing a woman naked. What turns them on is the playful, flirtatious interaction that proceeds sex.

If you are one of those women who think being there naked is all you have to do, think again. Especially if you find limp dicks happening a lot, you might take a hint.

I'm in my mid-60s now, and whether I have a performance issue or not seems to depend totally on whether the woman I'm with is seductive or "just there."

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You said a Mouthful ;)

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It sounds like a wonderful combination. If being willing to play sexually with me makes a woman "easy" then I love "easy" women for whom I like to be quite hard. I guess opposites do attract (or work well together).

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I'm EASY and insist my male playmate be HARD.....Call me Picky !

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Frankly I think the idea of "easy" women is a vestige of male-centric society that, just like so many groups of people in the past, seeks to control another group of people using sex as a bludgeon.

First they create a stigma attached to the phrase "easy woman" or just "easy" in a sexual sense then keep expanding the defining aspects of that phrase to include the activities that tend to lead toward independence. The only way to avoid the stigma is to act only within strict parameters dampening self determination and creating a sub-class of controlled people.

Consider that determining what makes someone "easy" can be open to debate:

(Huge disclaimer: I have no real opinion on the content of the following link. I pulled it mostly at random after a quick search. It might be good. It might be bad. I have no idea who Ms. Claire is. I pulled the periods to try and get this to post.)

www marieclaire com/sex-love/men/looking-easy-100227

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