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TOPIC: Why is it that so many men in the LS have issues performing
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JustUs , I think your question was a good one and very worth discussing. Without opposing opinions questions can never be fully answered. I hope to see you post more frequently myself.

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"I am one of those guys who talks like I am a porn star, and when I am comfortable, I can back that up, but when I am with someone I hardly know, a lot of times it just won't work when it's game time.

My apologies I assumed from your above post that you did indeed suffer this issue on occasion.

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Sav, I wasnt saying I personally have issues caused by that, I'm just saying that it could be one of the reasons guys have issues with it. The same as someone else just said too. If a girl doesn't make me work for it at least a little I don't play with them so I have already reconsidered who I play with.


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"I understand that this isn't a dating site so to speak and usually it's pretty much a sure thing, but there is also an amount of class that can or can not come with it. "

I am never a "sure" thing and do not ever "throw" myself at anyone , I am not the girl taking her clothes off at a public party or randomly giving blow jobs at the bar. I too insist on flirtation, charm and most definitely class , good manners and a whole lot of attraction . If you're having issues preforming with the partners you're picking and you see them as easy, classless whores who are a "sure" thing perhaps you might want to reconsider who you agree to play with. Just saying..... Mrs Sav

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Rdy, i was replying to the post below mine. I'm not sexy and i know it. Just an average guy all around. I should stick to just reading post.

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I apologize, easy wasn't the right word to use. I didn't mean to imply anything. I just meant that I like having to work for it a bit. I understand that this isn't a dating site so to speak and usually it's pretty much a sure thing, but there is also an amount of class that can or can not come with it.

I understand a lot of people here call themselves sluts and enjoy that, and I respect that, to each his own, the same as I would hope you would respect that to me that's a turn off. If I was single and at a regular party or the bar and had some girl throwing herself at me, I wouldn't do her.

My point is even if it is a sure thing, you can still make the guy work for it. Having game and being able to at least feel like the girl wants to fuck you for reasons besides so it's fair is a turn on. But hey I'm just a guy do wtf do I know.


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.." In my experience, a lot of women who have extensive LS experience get so jaded that they dispense completely with seduction. I've had a lot of women whom I used to enjoy change from attractive to not. The reason was that as soon as you get to the bedroom they hurriedly strip naked and flop down on the bed. And just lie there. As if to say "do me." Veteran swinger men are not turned on by seeing a woman naked. What turns them on is the playful, flirtatious interaction that proceeds sex. If you are one of those women who think being there naked is all you have to do, think again. Especially if you find limp dicks happening a lot, you might take a hint...."

^^ This. Agreed VA, thats what separates the average playmates from the exceptional playmates...

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I love confidence but detest arrogance. A person who continually brags just makes me roll my eyes whether there is anything factual in their comment I will never know as they will have no chance to prove it. Experience has proven to me again and again that those that brag the most offer the least.....men and women !

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A lot of factors can be involved.

Heck we played with a couple recently, and when his pecker came out I thought it was going to hit the ceiling fan.

Then his wife came over to me and I thought....."Oh great. Im sure she'll be impressed opening this package" lol

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"We try try to live up to the porn industry standards of sex."

The same can be said of women. Are our breasts big enough, is my ass tight enough, do I have cellulite ,do I look as good as his favorite porn star? Does he expect me to behave like one? Does he expect me to cum when he drops his pants around his ankles, puts his hands behind his back while staring at the ceiling with in cock in my mouth and get mad when it just isn't going to happen? How come I can't have sex in outrageous positions while balanced on one foot in a 6 inch stiletto????? Can I compete with his own hand, after all they've been together since birth ;) Just some food for thought lol.

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