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TOPIC: Why is it that so many men in the LS have issues performing

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User Details are only visible to members.	i really hope you people live up to all of the bragging and shit talking you do. I have never met one that could.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	coming up for air after two weekends of orgies I can still DO it....it just takes WAY longer to recover after hours of fucking between 6 couples. Tantric helps-sort of like interval training for sex...lol I still say I prefer repeat visits with very kinky and verbal couples than repeated blind dates, always with someone new. The MENTAL component is to me the key to arousal (other than medical issues). Fortunately I have a wonderful woman in my life that is as kinky and verbal as they cum. She loves to start off the night as the party fuck-toy for all the boys and girls ;) Tied to a chair, arranged just so... And since they all know her well, they have all agreed to 'compete' to make her cum.... MrsMuir has only one instruction. You must resist cumming, or failing that ask permission to cum. How's that for an 'icebreaker'?
East Fishkill NY			Username hidden (2777 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lots of men cant perform due to the fact that they are sooo out of shape. very bad eating habits, no excersise, couple with smoking and excessive use of alcohol will do a number on most men. excersise a bit, don't need to look like a bodybuilder, and a good diet will do wonders for men. especially after 40.
Jamaica NY			Username hidden (469 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	By this time, she had complained of her plight to several other women many of whom were actively recruiting to find someone to have sex with her. Okay mondieu, this woman has issues that have nothing to do with you, but are all about her. Whenever a woman proclaims that she has to be fucked by a basketball team of guys I always wonder...why? Now, I'm not talking about the chica who enjoys group play. I am talking about the pathetically desperate woman who HAS to be fucked by 30 men in order to feel like a woman. If you have to be fucked by 30 guys in order to feel beautiful...you have problems. Beauty and confidence are supposed to go out from within...but she is trying to feed her lacking confidence....trying to go in from out. This never works in anything other than a pick me up, which we all have done..including myself. Number two, what the FUCK...are her girlfriends her fucking swinging pimp? I would be ashamed of myself if my friends felt I were in such a sad state that they had to go about begging men to please come and fuck me. No thanks, i am too prideful for that bullshit. This poor lady has issues. For whatever reason, she has something to prove to herself. I hope she gains confidence through self love vs. this method. It had nothing to do with you.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have ED issues, which are caused by my BP medicine, not by any lack of desire or psychological reasons. I cannot get an erection on demand, but I can and do get rock hard erections when my female or male or couple lovers take it slowly and stimulate me as I stimulate them during foreplay. I have Levitra to compensate for lovers who are not inclined to take it slowly and stimulate me ;)
Forsyth GA			Username hidden (116 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	17 guys in a row huh, did she call Guinness ?
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A couple had invited me to meet them in their VIP room at TJ's IR Gangbang however when I arrived they flipped me the bird and turned their backs on me. I presume that they had finally after months of emails actually read my profile. But we all know the saying: Couples are a dime a dozen. I wandered through the club as I waited for my prearranged backups to arrive. I happened by a room where several people were watching a black fellow floundering in his efforts to mount a young woman doggystyle. As sex is not a spectator sport, I asked if she could use a stiff one and she eagerly agreed and began oral. But moments later frustrated with the failure of the first guy she proclaimed she'd had enough and left. Minutes later, she approached me at the bar apologizing saying that she had given the other fellow several chances. She proclaimed she was there to get laid by as many men as possible, was not being particular (thank you very much) and that I seemed capable. So we returned to a room and I was quickly ready to put paid to her shutout, but she would under no condition do bareback and so our purpose was thwarted. Nevertheless, hours later, as failure after failure after failure of men to perform, she beckoned to me to join her in yet another room as at least able to get it stiff in her mouth. She told me that 17 men had failed to even get it hard. By this time, she had complained of her plight to several other women many of whom were actively recruiting to find someone to have sex with her. I meanwhile was driving my rod into her mouth and exorting her to open her throat for me. A crowd had gathered and one woman blurted out, "You must be that narcissist!" I looked and found the source to be an attractive redhead and took her words as an invitation and quickly left the room with her. But one wonders is that what it takes, an incipient madman, in order to perform? The eager woman came to me again later to tell me how much she hated me and was angry with me for not being able to help her. She went home from an IR gangbang with at least 20 single guys there without ever being laid. I asked her if she had tried closing the door to give the guy or guys more privacy and she said that she had. Because of my affliction, I seldom go to group events but when I have gone to gangbangs it seems the last thing that is going to happen is a gangbang. Most people are mere spectators and the proclaimed licentiousness of many nine-tenths pretense! Mon Dieu!
Lakewood NJ			Username hidden (121 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think a lot of guys tend to have performance issues with age and most of us here are well into our 30s by the time we get the nerve to sign up. Not only that, the ladies tend to go with older guys because young guys often have absolutely no clue how to make women feel comfortable and have no game but can probably fuck like champs. Not a good combination because the ladies then go with the experienced older guys who make them feel psychologically comfortable but are less than stellar in bed because they're getting older and out of shape.
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"If you've properly prepared, you will have the requisite confidence when called to perform." What dream are you in? If a guy cant get it up, his mouth sure as shit aint broke. One can think of other things besides fucking if there is a man down. I agree, it is not the guys fault. No different than if I dont orgasm during a play session. It is what it is, deal with it and have fun. You make a big issue of it, you might as well just call it a night and turn on the nightly news...
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have had issues with this in our swinging past....and admittedly, it can definately hit your confidence after awhile. However...in my opinion, a woman never has the right to act out or make him feel like shit. Being mean, even out of frustration, never helps any situation. Making him feel like less of a man is NOT going to get his cock hard, let me tell you....and you only walk away feeling like a cruel bitch and its just a nasty ass thing overall. It is easy for me. As a woman, if I am dry due to being nervous, tired, that time in my cycle.....I take some lube, put it on and there you go. My parts just work. That gives me a confidence men will simply never have. The cock, from what I am told...is like a woman in several respects lol....he does what and when he wants to and doesnt give a fuck what anyone thinks about it.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

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